7dp5dt and BFN - so sad today

gringa78

I tested this morning and am so down in the dumps.  I don't even know what to do with myself.  I feel like if I tell myself "it's just too early" I'm making excuses.

I just don't know how to prepare myself for this cycle not working.  I know I HAVE to deal with it, but how?

smilee

I'm so sorry, sweetie.

I hope it is too early.  Perhaps you have a slow starter in there.

I'll be thinking of you. 

lnle

oh no!! I hope you've just got a slow starter too.

my IVF #1 BFN was awful. If it really does turn out to be a BFN, jujst let yourself grieve, and then try to do something to indulge yourself...

((hugs))

BeccaLandes

I'm so sorry.  I hope it just isn't accurate and you get better news later... but certainly it is something that will take time to process.

MrsACT1

I am really hoping it is too early.  With my first BFP, I tested at 12dpo and got a negative.  I didn't get a positive till a couple days later.  I am hoping this is the case for you!!!

terraflora

It seems really early to test.  I really hope that it will be different for you in a few days.  But of course it is hard to tell yourself that.  I don't know what to say about dealing with a real BFN.  I'm just terrified of getting one myself. I guess there is nothing to do but wait for the beta test and know that if it is BFN, that it happens to lots of people who go on to get the BFP later. Try and stay optimistic. 

tapgirl

Don't give up yet!  I had the same result at that point this time around.  I got a bfn @ 7dp5dt and completely counted myself out.  Turns out we just had a slow starter.  I am hoping and praying that is the case for you, too!  Good luck!

ladychicago

i'm so sorry, hon.    (((HUGS)))   i can't imagine how hard this is.    take care of yourself....  

Oct14

Please please please don't count yourself out. I tested yesterday, 10dp3dt and it was a negative. Needless to say, I cryed myself to sleep. This morning, I took another test and saw a very faint line. I took it again, and that faint line is back. BETA tomorrow. We are in the same position. it's not over until it's over!

Sticky dust.

 

igh0318

((hugs))  Hoping you get better news in a few days. 

Aliki

A word of hope to you-- I took a HPT on 7dp5dt too, and I got a BFN. Two days later, I had my first beta and it was a positive. I was in shock because I was expecting the worse.

 

So yes, keep telling yourself "it's too early" because it was too early for me too. Good luck!!!

gringa78

Oct14:

Please please please don't count yourself out. I tested yesterday, 10dp3dt and it was a negative. Needless to say, I cryed myself to sleep. This morning, I took another test and saw a very faint line. I took it again, and that faint line is back. BETA tomorrow. We are in the same position. it's not over until it's over!

Sticky dust.

 

Congrats on your BFP!!  I hope my outcome is the same as yours.  I've been crying all morning, but you gave me a little glimmer of hope.

ChiTown Bridget

((Hugs))) I'm hoping that you just tested too early.

gringa78

Aliki:

A word of hope to you-- I took a HPT on 7dp5dt too, and I got a BFN. Two days later, I had my first beta and it was a positive. I was in shock because I was expecting the worse.

 

So yes, keep telling yourself "it's too early" because it was too early for me too. Good luck!!!

Congrats to you too, Aliki...and thank you. 

Oct14

gringa78:

Oct14:

Please please please don't count yourself out. I tested yesterday, 10dp3dt and it was a negative. Needless to say, I cryed myself to sleep. This morning, I took another test and saw a very faint line. I took it again, and that faint line is back. BETA tomorrow. We are in the same position. it's not over until it's over!

Sticky dust.

 

Congrats on your BFP!!  I hope my outcome is the same as yours.  I've been crying all morning, but you gave me a little glimmer of hope.

I am still a bit cautious. Can't believe anything until tomorrow's BETA. But a line is a line right? And, I have never seen one. So.... keep up the hope. I will be praying for you.

PoeticJustice

Praying that it is just too early anf you will get that BFP

Kiki11

I'm so sorry.  I hope that it's too early, although I completely understand not feeling hopeful.  (((hugs)))

flutterby918

I am so sorry hun. You will be in my thoughts, maybe you are in for some kind of surprise this week. ((HUGS))

MrsP71506

I am so sorry.  I really hope that it is just too early.  Take care and let us know how things go.

MrsKario

Oh hon,  Im sorry.  IVF BFNs really do hurt.

It is still early, I really really hope that you do get a BFP this cycle, it is still possible.

hillaree

Oh NO!! I'm so sad for you, too. Thinking of you, sweetie, and I'm with everyone else and just hoping that it's too early. But I know it's impossible to keep hoping (((hugs)))

MerryMarisa

I'm sorry, sweetie.  ((( BIG HUGS )))