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My update :-(

TheSkimmyTheSkimmy member
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Thanks for all the prayers and good thoughts below. I got the call this afternoon after beta number 3. So far the betas (4 days between) had been 69 and then 217. Today it came back at 230. I'm not cramping... no pains. So either I'm going to miscarry or it's in my tube- My tube was blocked and I had a hysteroscopy before DS to get it cleared. They have always been a little careful of my tube since then.

I'm numb... I thought we had it figured out why I was having the miscarriages...

We were suppose to go on vacation for a week starting Tuesday. The nurse doesn't think I'll be able to because of appointments and a D&C or surgery if I need it.

I'm at my in laws tonight (which was the plan all along) hopefully they can keep my mind off of everything. I just want this to be all over.

 Thank you.

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    dana316dana316 member

    I am so sorry...

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    LVBlvdLVBlvd
    I am very sorry to hear this. It is incredibly unfair.
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    Kim777Kim777
    I am so sorry.
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    malloryo85malloryo85
    Oh no! I am so very sorry, ((HUGS))
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    Mrs.OLMrs.OL
    I'm so sorry.  I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.  It is all just so unfair. 
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    2006Bride2Be2006Bride2Be member

    I'm so sorry.  Email me if you want to talk.............we're in the same boat  :(

    Sending prayers your way.

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    desabeandesabean member
    I'm so sorry.
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    laura&dan05laura&dan05 member
    Aw, Kim this f-ing sucks!  I'm SO sorry! It's so unfair. Can i get you anything? I'm just down the road and I could be at your inlaws in no time.  I don't have any plans so please let me know if there is anything I can do or bring you....anything at all. ((HUGS))

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    Kim&JimKim&Jim member
    I'm so sorry to hear this.  I can't imagine what you are going through.
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    nicolita14wnicolita14w
    I'm so, so sorry. You'll be in my thoughts. (((hugs)))
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    pamela-mattpamela-matt
    I am so very sorry for your loss.  DH and I are just heartbroken for you and your DH.  I hope that they can figure out what is going on quickly.  Love you bunches.  (((HUGS))) and prayers
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    duke'sgirlduke'sgirl

    Just wanted to say that I'm sorry, again. It's so unfair. ((hugs))

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    JillRock96JillRock96 member
    I am so sorry, Kim.  You're in my thoughts.
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    DavezWifeDavezWife member
    Oh honey, I'm just so fecking sorry.
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    So sorry. :(
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    TheShellSeekerTheShellSeeker member
    I am so sorry.  (hugs)  please take care of yourself.
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    Mr.&MrsSMr.&MrsS
    I am so, so sorry!! I wish there was something I could do. Please take care of yourself.
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    Mrs.McJeepMrs.McJeep
    I am so sorry.
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    yankee42yankee42

    i am so so sorry sweetheart..here for you as always anytime you need..

    tons of prayers thoughts and love from this house on to you guys.. 

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    ABC-123ABC-123
    I am so, so sorry.
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    Lisa&MarkLisa&Mark member
    Hugs, I am so, so sorry.
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    schmoodleschmoodle member
    I'm so sorry sweetie.
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    macschicmacschic member
    so so sorry.
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    choco_labchoco_lab
    I'm sorry.
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    12106mrsmun12106mrsmun
    Oh honey, I am so so sorry.  I hate that this is happening again.  You're in my thoughts and prayers.  If you need to chat, vent, whatever, I'm here for you. 
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    crystalgirlcrystalgirl
    Honey, I'm just so so sorry.  I don't even know what to say.  I'm just really sorry.  Wish I could give you a big hug.
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    Carrie25Carrie25
    I am so incredibly sorry.  I'll be thinking about you.  I hope you can take your much needed vacation.  This is so unfair. 
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    KnockMeUpKnockMeUp
    I'm so sorry :(  How awful to have to go through this so many times :(
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    BoxTerBoxTer
    I'm so sorry. I hate that you're going through this and I hope you can find some peace in the days and weeks to come.
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    meechrobimeechrobi
    I am so sorry! You will be in my thoughts. (((hugs)))
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    tina623tina623 member
    I am sorry for your loss :(
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    lnlelnle
    I'm really sorry about this!
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    CMM05CMM05 member

    Kim-

    I'm so sorry :( Please let me know if you need anything. If you need help with Charlie, I am right around the corner! 

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    ChristakimChristakim member
    It's just not fair especially since you thought you knew where your m/c's were stemming from.  I'm so sorry:(  Hug Charlie tight.
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    kimarino13kimarino13
    I am so sorry.  :(

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    ShainaShaina
    Oh Skimmy.  I am SO SO sorry.  I don't know what to say so I will just say you and your fam are in my prayers.   (((HUGS)))
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    lolalillielolalillie
    Kim, I am SO sorry for your loss :( Words cannot express how sad I am for you and your DH. I too have had three losses and it is never easy. Please take care and know that we are all here for you. You and your DH are in my prayers. Hang in there and please take care.
    It took over four years to be diagnosed with PCOS. We TTC #1 for 18 months, did 5 rounds of Clomid and finally moved onto IVF...which worked! Throughout our IF journey, we suffered 3 miscarriages. We conceived both DD and DS without treatment.
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    craziheazocraziheazo
    I'm so sorry Skimmy. It's just not fair. You and DH are in my thoughts and prayers.
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    517butterfly517butterfly
    I am so incredibly sorry Skim!
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    bmf8140bmf8140 member
    I'm soo sooo sorry! Hang in there.
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