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Tomorrow was our original EDD

Anna&MattAnna&Matt member
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Any advice for dealing with that? I feel overly emotional today and I'm sure it will only be worse tomorrow. I already made plans to go do some shopping for this baby with my mom in hopes that staying busy will help.
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Re: Tomorrow was our original EDD

  • RJHarmonRJHarmon member
    I am really sorry, ours is coming up too.  I would like to hear suggestions from others as well because I am not sure how to deal either.  However, I do believe that staying busy is the key!

    1st pregnancy: m/c began 1/12/09 d&c 1/13/09 8wks. Baby stopped growing at about 6wks.

    Delaney: Born 10/15/09

    Gavin: Born 4/8/11

    Baby #3: due July 10, 2014

     

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  • SPC2007SPC2007
    When mine passed in April I thought about the day and what could have been and then took a moment to thank my angel baby and god for blessing me with this pregnancy.  I had a very busy day the day of my EDD so that was also good.
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  • MelissaAB5579MelissaAB5579 member
    Mine just passed earlier this month, and I'm not going to lie, it was hard. It's very hard to think about what might have been. I just tried to stay busy that day, and gave thanks for the beautiful life inside of me now. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.
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  • MrsGhappilyeverafterMrsGhappilyeverafter
    I'm sorry hun.  My EDD was rough, luckily I was distracted since we were on a cruise and happened to be in Florence that day.  It's okay to let yourself cry, but try to stay distracted if you can and do something nice for yourself.  And celebrate the LO growing inside you since you'll be 13w3d tomorrow!
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  • luckyangelluckyangel member
    Mine was a month ago.  It sucks.  There's no way around that.  I was a littel less emotional than I thought I would be, but found that a good cry alone helped early in the morning.  Having a healthy strong baby growing inside me helped a ton too.  I tried to focus on Sean and not think too much about TC.  Sorry sweety-wish there was some magic formula for making it through that day without pain, but there's not.
    accordingtoabby.com" "From of suffering emerges the strongest souls. The most massive characters are seared with scars." Kahlil Gibran
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  • smallfry4smallfry4

    Mine will pass in January, so I have awhile to go.  But I just think that everything happens for a reason.  If you did not have that m/c than you would not be pregnant with your baby right now.  When your baby is born, you will realize that God had a plan for you and the child that you are bringing into this world.  My thoughts and prayers are with you!

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  • Anna&MattAnna&Matt member
    thanks ladies!
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