Pregnant after a Loss

Cried in Target

Just need to vent a little.  So, I started off pre-preg as a size 16-18 and yes I am a larger girl.  I have always been sensitive about my weight, but honestly I have been more secure since being pregnant because I think that pregnancy is beautiful-despite it all.  However, while walking through target tonight with my DH a teenage boy and a group of teenage girls walk by and the boy says to one of the girls that, "if you don't stop eating-you are gonna be that woman's twin."  The girls were all OMG hehehehe (whatever)  The boy proceeded to say stuff about finding scales and being fat...etc. etc.  I was trying to haul ass outta the aisle before I either cussed out a 16 year old or I cried in front of them---all equally bad.  So, I went down another aisle and cried.  I am so mad that I let them get to me.  I hope to God that I can raise my daughter better than these kids...

Im not looking for a pity party or anything, I just needed to get this off my chest and tell someone how bad it hurt!  I am embarassed to talk about this to most people IRL.  Thanks for listening.

1st pregnancy: m/c began 1/12/09 d&c 1/13/09 8wks. Baby stopped growing at about 6wks.

Delaney: Born 10/15/09

Gavin: Born 4/8/11

Baby #3: due July 10, 2014

 

Re: Cried in Target

  • OMG what little shiits!! :-(

    You are a beautiful pg woman...don't let those brats get to you!  

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  • i'm sorry you had to go through that today. Some people have no manners. (hugs)
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  • agree with PP - they weren't worth your energy - or deserving of your tears -

    hold your head up high and focus on your LO !! :)

  • Oh honey I am so sorry for you!  That would have made me cry too, and I don't know if I would have been able to stop.  I also don't know if I would have been able to hold myself back from giving those jackasses verbal beat downs - they definitely deserved it.  You are pregnant and beautiful - forget those assholes.
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    My mouth is hanging open at that, literally - I can't imagine someone being so rude and awful! I'm really sorry. :(
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  • You are gorgeous :) I hate people that don't raise their kids appropriately. I am sorry.
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  • Don't be embarassed.  It's normal to feel down after such a crude remark.  Your little girl will be a sweetheart.  BTW I think you're beautiful! 
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  • I am so sorry you had to go through that. You are beautiful!
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  • Oh!  I am so sorry.  Big hugs!!
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  • Wow.  I don't know what to say.  I'm so sorry.  I wish I could tell them off for you.
  • Dont worry, this happend to me at the grocery store. I just walked past and called my friend and laughed at the whole thing. My friend even said that 16 yr olds need to get some manners nowadays.
  • What obnoxious kids! I'm so sorry you had to go through that.  I would have cried too.  I can't believe some people don't teach their kids better.  ((HUGS))
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    You are gorgeous :) I hate people that don't raise their kids appropriately. I am sorry.

    Angry This! Grrrrr.

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  • I'm so mad at those stupid kids for you!  I'm sorry that they upset you - I would have probably reacted the same way.  I believe in karma - they'll get what's coming to them.
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