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It is silly but I get nervous when I tense up

Yesterday I was driving & the woman in front of me hit her breaks for a deer and I stopped short feeling my whole body tense up. I sat there for like 1 minute while people honked at me wondering if my tensing could 'hurt' my baby at all... it sounds silly and so dumb but it is honestly what I thought! I was just walking out to the WH @ work and someone had spilt water. Well I ALMOST slipped but just kindof jerked myself up by pulling in my stomach.. once again I kind of freaked! It is SO dumb & i am so early but I am just so attached to this kid already! I wish i could just chill

Re: It is silly but I get nervous when I tense up

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    BFP#1 1/27/09 :: Natural m/c 2/6/09 @ 6w
    BFP#2 5/11/09 :: Natural m/c 5/27/09 @ 5w5d
    BFP#3 7/24/09 :: Missed m/c, baby stopped growing at 6w4d :: natural m/c 8/28/09 @ 8w6d
    BFP #4 11/27/09 :: DD born 7/27/10
    BFP #5 2/29/12 :: DD born 11/6/12

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    Sorry, don't know what happened there!

    BFP#1 1/27/09 :: Natural m/c 2/6/09 @ 6w
    BFP#2 5/11/09 :: Natural m/c 5/27/09 @ 5w5d
    BFP#3 7/24/09 :: Missed m/c, baby stopped growing at 6w4d :: natural m/c 8/28/09 @ 8w6d
    BFP #4 11/27/09 :: DD born 7/27/10
    BFP #5 2/29/12 :: DD born 11/6/12

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  • Me too - I have had a few moments where I jump in traffic, or at work if someone startles me, and I take a minute and put my hand on my belly and breathe for a second and tell her I'm sorry!   :)
    BFP #1 = 12/23/08 M/C = 1/5/09 @ 6 w 0 d
    BFP #2 = 3/30/09 DD born 12/9/09
    BFP #3 = 5/17/11 EDD = 1/27/12
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  • I did the same thing. I lifted one of those heavy office water coolers, and ended up dropping it on my foot. I called my husband crying b/c I thought I dislodged the baby. How silly we can be sometimes...
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  • Thanks for psoting this - I am the same way and feel less like a dork. :)
    TTC since 2005. DS via IVF - 02/10 Baby #2 - due 10/16/11
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