If someone who held things over your head

pookie2005

sent you money as pay back for a favor you did them that required you to use your own money, would you accept it?  Especially if you knew you really needed it?

Starr_Mom

Yes. I'll take money any time.

aprilmomtobe

yes

joseysbride

I don't think I get your question...

Person A did person B a favor, using their own money.  Person B paid person A back?  I don't see what's wrong with that?  It only seems right that A would be paid back for the money they spent for person B.  Unless it was implied at the time that it was a gift.

katie277s

Yes. 

pookie2005

joseysbride:

I don't think I get your question...

Person A did person B a favor, using their own money.  Person B paid person A back?  I don't see what's wrong with that?  It only seems right that A would be paid back for the money they spent for person B.  Unless it was implied at the time that it was a gift.

Yes, it SEEMS right.  My point is that person B will most likely hold it over person A's head later anyway.  Person A did not imply it was a gift.  I know it doesn't make sense.  Person B is a little nuts.   I wish I could go into more detail but in light of recent events I would say it's not wise.

amiamish

pookie2005:

joseysbride:

I don't think I get your question...

Person A did person B a favor, using their own money.  Person B paid person A back?  I don't see what's wrong with that?  It only seems right that A would be paid back for the money they spent for person B.  Unless it was implied at the time that it was a gift.

Yes, it SEEMS right.  My point is that person B will most likely hold it over person A's head later anyway.  Person A did not imply it was a gift.  I know it doesn't make sense.  Person B is a little nuts.   I wish I could go into more detail but in light of recent events I would say it's not wise.

ditto the confusion...but since the money was due (as a payback) then I would def take the money. That person would have no reason to hold that over your head...

stacynikki

She can only hold it over your head if you let her. 

Yes, I would take the money. 

MarchMom06

stacynikki:

She can only hold it over your head if you let her. 

Yes, I would take the money. 

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CleoKitty

If this person is paying you back money that is rightfully owed to you, then yes, of course I'd take it. If she owes you then how can she hold that over your head?