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I'm so nervous...

I was 4 w, 1d when I had my m/c.  I am sitting here having cramps and freaking out.

Re: I'm so nervous...

  • just cramps?

    have you had a check yet?

    I had cramps from before my BFP until about 8-10 weeks. It was awful, I'd be on my knees in pain, especially in the morning and overnight. At first they thought maybe it was an ectopic but thankfully, I was just a freak of nature and it was nothing.

    Hoping the same for you!

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  • It's implantation cramps!  As long as you aren't bleeding you're all good!  I'm so excited for you!
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  • Sorry you are so stressed out!  Just try to remember that cramping is normal too.  I know it's hard after a m/c, I was a wreck until I started feeling movement this time around.  But, I just tried to remember that I had a lot of cramping when I was pregnant with R, and everything turned out fine. 

    Hang in there!

  • You will be nervous the entire pregnancy, if you are like me!! After my m/c at 9wks, my next pregnancy was definitely different from the 4 previous.  A m/c definitely takes the naiveity out of pregnancy.  I was nervous until I saw that baby with my own eyes when he was born!!  It didn't help that a hematoma was detected next to the placenta during my last pg at about 6 weeks, which started with bleeding...so I was COMPLETELY freaked out & had to be on complete bed rest for a little while.  I was sure I was going to m/c again, but I now have a beautiful 8 month old baby boy :)

    GL!

  • Ugh.  That is the worst feeling.  Just try to relax.  I had a m/c before R, and with this pg I had cramping in the beginning, too.  As long as there's no blood, you shouldn't worry.  Good luck!
  • I don't know if you saw my page to you last night, but I wanted to congratulate you!  It's about time one of us gets good news. 

    I'm pretty sure the cramping is normal, especially so early on.  I know I did with Will.  

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  • When is your 1st appt? I'm sure it'll be hard not to be a nervous wreck until that 1st appt where you see that tiny flicker of a heartbeat.
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