this was your third child and you are not having a shower? We were not planning to since we have few needs and those we have we planned to get ourselves. Reading an earlier post got me thinking that I could register and I really dont have to tell anyone since we aren't expecting anyone to get us anything, but since BRU sends a coupon near the due date to complete your registry I could just get what we need with that coupon. How does that sound?
Re: Would you register if...
I started a "wish" list for my own personal purposes. No one but DH and I know about it and it just keeps track of the things I think of that we may need. Then we get the coupons in the end.
And, as a bonus IF anyone asks you what you need you already know because you have been keeping a tally. With DS whenever anyone asked what we needed I always drew a blank.