Wow. How should I react to being called annoying?

CubbyMama

I mean, should I post about it?  Or maybe just ignore it?  I guess my feelings shouldn't be hurt, but they are.  Actually, I'm not sure whether they are or not...maybe I'll take a poll to see whether or not I should care what people on here think.  God, I'm just so stressed out about how to react to this--I really need support!  What do you think I should do??  I'll post again about this in 4 minutes to see if I get different answers....and then I'll ignore them anyway, do what I want, and post 12 times about that.  Sound good?

summerbrideDC

:-)

michaeltrish

I think you're awesome.  Wanna share a bottle of wine with me?

minnasmommy

fwiw--I didn't vote for you!

K-I-S-S-I-N-G

me like you.

KrisBriMcBunny

I hear ya but I would let it go because majority of the girls went to bat for ya!   Honestly I think the whole thing kinda got out of control.  At least you know who it was....I got a lot of votes but no one had the balls to even tell me who they were or why I was annoying.

winery

Yes, that sounds good.  And I'll try to infer from your post the way you'd like me to respond so I can get it right.

 

MoRoseT

oh, just ignore it...people around here need to lighten up and get a life imo.  You are awesome and I totally understand everything you are going through.  Being a new mommy of 2 is a toughie...especially when you can't get the babe to take a bottle.  We JUST got Noah to finally take something other than my boob. lol  The stress of all you are going through is hard and you were just seeking support and advice on here...no biggie. You are a wonderful mommy! : )

 

summerbrideDC

At least you don't annoy 26% of people who took BostonMama's poll. LOL (that would be me) ?;-)

CubbyMama

LOL!  I was actually shocked to see people talking about me at all, b/c I don't feel like I really post enough to be "known," but then once I read that thread, I realized the only people who had much negative to say about me were jkmay (who is the AE of someone who seriously needs to grow a pair, and who comes out to flame me randomly here and there) and lucyfox, who has also said things like that "to my face."  So, no real surprises. 

And FWIW, I think I must come across differently here than I am IRL, because I'm not a stress case or unhappy in any way--it's just that I don't have much time to be on, so when I do post, it's because of an issue/problem/question I have.  I did look back at "my posts" and see that I did post numerous times about the bottle issue, so I can see how that would be annoying to someone who was paying attention enough to notice.  Oh, well.

Kapalua

oh Cubby...I think you're awesome and hilarious!  Definitely don't sweat it!

Temp374386125003286

You rock - screw them!

wellfleet04

Ignore it!  I love you, especially when the posts get all political and you express my thoughts more eloquently than I could.

femmegem

I heart you. You're one of my nestbian lovers. I don't have many of those, you know.

kittycarr

For the record, it was not me that voted you annoying.  I lurves you Cubby!!

jorie

Hmm, I wasn't here to see all this go down today, but don't sweat it.  You ask parenting questions on a parenting board.  That's what it's here for.  Rude people are much more annoying.

BubblyToes

Embrace it!  I know I did.

And I'm really  not sure how you got on that list.

camrude

I gave a little side eye when seeing your name (and a few others) on the list(s) today. Post away I say!

r9stedt

Fwiw, you're not the one (by far) who I wonder how they raised their first one bc they have so many questions about their second one. And I adore you (and your blog!). Keep on posting.

CubbyMama

Aw, shucks.  You guys are too nice.  And SBDC, I categorically denounce anyone who voted for you in that poll, either. Wait a minute--why isn't everyone ganging up on zacook for instigating it all in the first place??   Grab your torches and pitchforks!

niecy

smccabe9:

You rock - screw them!

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DandelionMom

OMG Cubby, you're the best!  Ha!

You know I love you! 

novbride23

Hi there! Not a big poster here at all...but wanted to let you know that we found out we were pregnant roughly around the same time and our kiddos are only two days apart. I look for your posts because they strangely parallel my life especially the baby not taking the bottle posts. You post questions I wouldn't have so you do all the work for me! So, no...I don't find you annoying at all Best of luck with the baby!