I would look into a ring sling, versus a pouch sling. There is a lot more flexibility with the sizing and you can get a custom fit to you and baby.
I don't have any sellers to suggest, but you might want to check out this site: https://www.thebabywearer.com/ They have discussion forums and reviews, so you might be able to find more info there.
I think I had asked this on the parenting board once and someone recommended the Moby, so I'm going to try that out...but haven't tried one on yet. Hopefully it fits.
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About me 2007: Started TTC. 2008: OB prescribed clomid, went to RE and was Dx with PCOS. 2009: IUI #1 w/follitsim and trigger = BFP. B/G Twins born at 33 weeks. 2012: TTC #3, Round 2 of Letrozole w/TI = BFP, missed m/c at 8 1/2 wks. Currently on the bench as we make plans for a new home. Anxious to start TTC #3 within the next year!
i use the mei tai and the beco butterfly...they both seem to fit well and the beco even has room to spare! i love both of them. good luck. def try out the baby wearer website and look for used ones!
You can make your own moby wrap which would ensure that it would fit. All it is, is 5 yards of stretch cotton material cut in half length wise. No sewing required. You can extend the length if you are concerned it wouldn't be big enough. The moby website tells you how to wrap the material.
I am getting ready to list mine on e-bay but would rather sell it to a MoM if possible.... I am a size 20 and have a ring sling from Kangaroo Korner www.kangarookorner.com. Mine is brown with blue polka dots... it was fine for either Jack or Bella... It is gently used and am asking $25 for it. Even if you do not want a used one this site is running a good sale. Page me if you are interested or if you have questions about the sling in general. I really liked this one
Re: A plus size sling/wrap:
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About me 2007: Started TTC. 2008: OB prescribed clomid, went to RE and was Dx with PCOS. 2009: IUI #1 w/follitsim and trigger = BFP. B/G Twins born at 33 weeks. 2012: TTC #3, Round 2 of Letrozole w/TI = BFP, missed m/c at 8 1/2 wks. Currently on the bench as we make plans for a new home. Anxious to start TTC #3 within the next year!