DH and I have not begun TTC yet and probably won't for at least a year. However, lately, I have been feeling a desire to adopt internationally. This is not something we have discussed - at least not in detail and not recently, and I am wondering if I continue to feel that pull, how to bring it up with DH in a way that does not sound so completely out of the blue(even though it is). I'm not sure how comfortable he would be with the idea of adoption at all(in the US or outside). If we have dicussed it previously, I think it was pretty brief and was in the case of IF. Recently I have begun thinking of the two independent of each other, as in, not adopting just because of IF, but more for humanitarian reasons. Any advice is appreciated!