Fred

Thusadeedoo

Thanks for that comment. I never thought of it the way you explained it, but now thinking about it its EXACTLY how you describe. She has adopted all of his friends, interests etc. Its so sad to think about because she was a great person and friend. She was also such a motivated go-getter type. Now from what I hear/see she is no longer that person.

I think your right and just leave it alone. If this is the case where she has become this was because of his manipulation then I would want her to know she can come to me if needed.