TTC After a Loss

*~*~*~Ladies in waiting *~*~*~

*~*~Ladies in waiting daily check in~*~*

This is group designed for all the ladies in the various stages of waiting after a loss: waiting to miscarry, waiting for AF to arrive, waiting to TTC again, and waiting for BFP.

 

*Since this process is such a true test in patience, it is nice to have the support and friendship of other women going through similar experiences and emotions. I have decided after receiving input from you wonderful ladies to do a bi-weekly check-in on Mondays & Fridays (possibly Wednesdays too) instead of daily check-in.  With my kids out of school I am not going to have as much time as I have had to bump..  If we need to modify that in the future then we can. 

 

*If you would like to be added to the list please post your name and your goal.  There will be a daily question, a place for prayer requests and a daily inspirational verse. 

 

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Good evening ladies. I am exhausted, but back from all the events at my church this week with our mission group.  I am looking forward to going to bed early tonight? How are you all today? 

 

Please give a general update on yourself?  Does anyone have any prayer requests?  Do we have any new BFP?s?

 

Inspirational Verse:

?Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart.? Psalm 37:4

 

Thought for the day:

What happens to good people when bad things happen to them?  They become better people.  (Robert Schuller)

 

Prayer Request/s:   (new requests in red)

-     The girls that are currently going through a loss or the awful waiting time to find out if their pregnancy is going to continue.  It seems like there is a lot of new girls this week.   It breaks my hear to see the new girls every day..

-     That we all have the patience to not going crazy while ttcal

-     AddictedtotheKnot ? after the loss of her baby and emergency surgery yesterday.

  

Question of the day:

Which ?bumpie? has been the most inspiring to you thru your losses and thru the TTCAL process?

 

-         For me during my loss it had to be MelissaAB?  She helped me keep the faith through my first loss in October.  I cant wait to meet her finally IRL next weekend..  Although all the girls on PL board helped me thru.  And especially the STL girls who came to my house after I lost baby Grace..  You guys are awesome!

 

-         During the TTCAL & waiting to TTCAL  process all of you ladies!  The ladies that have been on this board for 6 months or more ttc who aren?t giving up but persevering are inspiring to me.  It amazes me how you ladies keep trying!  I may have given up.  I hope each and every one of you get a BFP very soon!

 

 Ladies waiting to try again

 

4thofJulyWedding?.TTC in two more cycles

AbbyTownsend?.waiting for AF

AddictedtotheKnot?

Alexandra*smom?.  Waiting for AF

Amy&Steve0421..waiting one more cycle to ttc again

annecoxrn?.TTC in June

candlcrazee?  waiting for AF after D&E

dansgrl05?.TTC in August

DSU98?..TTC in June/July

Futureevans?.TTC in July

Ginaincali?waiting to ttc in November

heathergirl67?.TTC in July/August

islelily?waiting to get the ok to TTC again

Jrosehistory?.waiting for AF

Julybaby09?.TTC in April or May

KateandMark?.TTC in July/August

KiKiBean91...  Waiting for AF to show

kmullins24?.waiting for AF

Krate24?Surgery was successful, waiting to TTC

kristenand...waiting for AF (TTC in August)

KristysRedBarn?.TTC in July or August

L2theC42?.waiting to O (TTC next month)

labbie1821?.TTC in July

Ljsmith?.waiting for AF

MelissaM09? waiting for AF, ttc in June

Miamicubajam?.waiting for IVF Sept-October

mirlynn324?waiting for first AF after m/c

MrsErv412?waiting for AF

MrsTeri?.waiting for IVF cycle and April 30th appt

mrstyson03..  Waiting for AF

Myafoo..waiting to TTC

needastork?..waiting for AF to go away!  LOL  = )

Nessa1014?.TTC in July/August

ping1080?.waiting for AF TTC in July

redsox2934?.TTC in June

Rolos_girl.. waiting to TTC in Aug/Sept.

Samm1983?.waiting for AF

sinisterka...waiting  for AF (TTC in August)

stellar_ma...waiting to try

str8ota..  TTC in June

SuzP?.TTC in a year 

Sweetsarahsmiley?.waiting to TTC

think10913?.TTC Sept/Oct

TinaL99?.TTC in May

Uagirl?.waiting for AF to try again

Wickedsugar?.waiting for pinched nerve to heal

 

 

Ladies waiting for BFP (give me your status updates please) 

 

1st timeMommy2be?Waiting to O

AB&TB?.waiting for BFP

ACM1616?.waiting to O

abartane?.waiting to O

ade2be?.waiting for BFP

Alwyzbsy?waiting to O

Amanda&paul?.waiting for BFP

Amandarene112?.waiting to O

Beckastar?.waiting to O

BELOVEDCARMEL?.waiting to O

BermudaBride07?.waiting for BFP

Blessed?.waiting for BFP

Blondie223?.. waiting for BFP

Bookgal?.waiting to O

bostonfingerlakes07?.waiting for BFP

bradsgirl4?.waiting to O

~*BREN*~? waiting to O

Brightgirl01?.waiting for BFP

brooke12?.waiting for BFP

CaptainD

carasizemore?.waiting to O

cfwinston?waiting to O

Cougar2006?.waiting to O

Cowgirl?.waiting for BFP

dkfitz07?.waiting to O

ecteacher23?.waiting to O

Elenarf?.waiting to O

eschall ? waiting to O

Gabrielle0509?.waiting to O

gin9874?.waiting to O

Hbkisses? waiting to O

Heidisean?.waiting to O

Hesed139?waiting to O

Iteachtoo?.waiting for BFP

Jacquiemark?.waiting to O

jayhawk2003?.waiting for BFP

jlburton20... waiting for BFP

Jen-dale?..waiting for BFP

Jpowell3

Jswitcher?.waiting to O

Jsworsham?.waiting to O

Kaycee2009..waiting for BFP

KearnsL23?.waiting for BFP

kearnsL23?.waiting for BFP

KelinandKevin?.waiting to O

Kmullins24?.waiting to O

knelli?.waiting for BFP

Krp-b?.waiting to O

Leah&Cole?.waiting to O

loveistpws?waiting to O

MarisaC?waiting to O

masonmom12?.waiting to O

Matt and Karen?.waiting for O

Meegs 10.13.06?.waiting for BFP

Mia07?.waiting for BFP

mindyschal...waiting for BFP

mlmtgg?.waiting for BFP

momagain20..waiting for BFP

Moonpalace?.waiting to O

Mrs.EmmaLouise?.waiting for BFP

Mrs.freitas?.waiting to O

Mrs0815?.waiting for BFP

MrsCrabbie?.waiting to O

MrsEzStar? waiting for BFP

mrsfarmer0711?.waiting for BFP

mrshutch?.waiting for BFP

Mrs.Ivy?waiting for BFP

Mrskilbride

MrsLynneaY?.waiting for AF

MsZoeB?waiting for BFP

Mrstyson03?waiting to O

Nemattox?waiting to O

nferrante?.waiting to O (but not TTC next cycle)

nmeandwjh..waiting for BFP

Nicolina08?.waiting for O

NMAWALLACE?.waiting to O

Ohdanna?  Waiting to O

OregonMama?waiting for BFP

PeetiePie? waiting to O

phillyandashley?.waiting for BFP 

PurpleK26?.waiting to O

redshoegirl?.waiting for BFP

Scooter999?.waiting for BFP

sept9107br...waiting for BFP

Shelbyluvschachi?.waiting for BFP

shellyrmml?.waiting to O

shortie?.waiting for BFP

smtaylor1?.waiting to O

Spldbrt?..waiting to O

Str8ota?.waiting for AF

Sue&Pasquale?waiting for BFP

sunsetlove?.waiting for AF

superluper? waiting to O?

SweetieD21?.waiting to O

SweetPea517?.waiting to O

TefLepOM?.waiting for BFP

teppy2008?Waiting to O

Tina8307?.waiting for a BFP

waitingforbaby#2?.waiting for AF

WearingRed?. Waiting to O

wewillserveHim?.waiting for BFP

Wntrbride05?.waiting for O

 

 

Graduates:  

 

*iLiAnA*?.December 5, 2009

92703bride?.December 2009

aimeelynae?.January 5, 2010

Allie482?

Ceramsey?.December 2009

Char-char?.December 2009

deedeew80?..January 2010

DWBrideMar2008?.November 2009

Ellenaxo?.November 6, 2009

Erinash?.November 2009

hopingforababyin2009?.November 2009

Ibis?.January 2010

Janey_J_09?.November 27, 2009

Kaymee?.November 2009

Kristenanderik?.January 2010

MelissaAB5579?.November 14, 2009

MrsPatterson?.November 2009 

Mustangcutie ?.November 2009

NCSunshinegirl?.November 2009

Qsuziez?.October 28, 2009

racer88?.December 2009

RebandJake?.December 2009

Saverne?.December 2009

Septsoulmates?.January 2010

SPC2007?.December 2009

Stacydelpop?.January 26, 2010

TheWarrens..   January 2010?

Xleslieraex?February 2010 (?)

Xnbride?..  December 30, 2009

VanessaRae9608?.January 2010

 

 

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Re: *~*~*~Ladies in waiting *~*~*~

  • After a BFN, I did get my BFP this cycle!! I'm a graduate!

    I'll happy accept any prayers I can get for a sticky baby. 


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  • I really like this idea.  I am waiting for my BFP.  I finally O'd after my first cycle of clomid which for me was a miracle all its own.  I can always use prayers...however I would rather offer mine up for someone who truly needs them :)
  • I am waiting for AF.  Hoping to TTC again late July or Aug.

    I forgot to add that you, cowgirl, have been very helpful to me on the mc/pl loss board.  You're always very supportive and positive and some of your poems made me cry and stuck with me.  Thank you! 

    I haven't been on TTCAL long enough to know who's who yet I guess.

  • Congrats Megs!

    I am waiting for my BFP.  I tested today at 12dpo and got a negative.

    The most supportive/helpful bumpie for me has been SuzP and qos410.  They are the two most amazing women I have ever 'met'.

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    After a BFN, I did get my BFP this cycle!! I'm a graduate!

    I'll happy accept any prayers I can get for a sticky baby. 

     

    Holy moly!  I must have missed your post.  Congrats and :::sticky dust:::

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  • I noticed PurpleK26 is still on the list. She graduated and is due 2/13 (I think).  No update for me, but I will say that I am most inspired by BeckyS, Mrs.EmmaLouise and luvsbunny.  Becky was the first BFP I saw posted on here and I am always hopeful when I see her name pop up.  Emma always had kind words on mc/pl.  She also inspired me while I was waiting to m/c and waiting for af.  Knowing how long she had to wait and how positive she seemed really helped me.  I also admire luvsbunny for her tenacity and spunk. 

    The truth is I love you all!  Seriously.  Here's a pip to prove it...

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  • To be honest, everyone has been super nice, helpful, and extremely supportive.  I love that I can ask just about anything, and there is always someone who has been through it, knows about it, or who is willing to look for it!

    While i've had a +OPK, I don't think I o'd, as I have had no O symptoms, like I usually have.

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  • I finally got AF last week! I haven't been around much lately because we just had a huge move and it took awhile to get internet back. Anyway AF arrived stayed 5 days and I am now on CD 10. Waiting to O!

    I would have to say that all of you girls were so inspirational and comforting! No one ever made me feel awkward about my feelings or anything!

  • imageMeegs10.13.06:

    After a BFN, I did get my BFP this cycle!! I'm a graduate!

    I'll happy accept any prayers I can get for a sticky baby.?

    * sticky baby * sticky baby * sticky baby * ?

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  • Thank you :O) the prayers are giving me strength daily

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    ?No one bumpie stands out as my sole inspiration. All of the ladies on TTCAL have been key to my IRL peace with my losses.?
    It helps so much to know that others have gone through this & are feeling the same way as I am .?
    I feel like I have a team on my side routing for me & I am your biggest cheerleader too.

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  • Update: AF arrived yesterday..new start on charting.. hoping next month is lucky..

    Inspire: all the ladies here have been supportive.. through the ups and downs of TCCAL.. everyone has given such helpful advice..

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