Sorry to go on, but this really bothers me

blondie223

I printed the blog SIL made on her myspace page and I'm reading it and in a way it seems like a tear down to me. Here is a couple of things I'm talking about... "I guess i just wish some of the old xxxx would start to shine through a little and be the fun fun guy he used to be . So i can hear that funny xxxx dog laugh again and see a little bit of life in his eyes again." "all i have ever wanted for u is to be happy so i hope you r but we r your family and u could have a lot more happiness in your life if u did'nt distance yourself so much from the ones who love u the most." I don't know if I'm reading too much into it, if I am please feel free to tell me. But, what I'm getting is that she thinks he's not happy and he isn't happy with life. Which kind of makes me feel like she's saying I don't make him happy or we don't have a happy life. Which we do, especially when we aren't having to deal with her. The only person he distances himself from is her b/c he hates dealing with her stupid crap. B/c I'm sorry, he's happy, I'm happy, we have fun, we have fun with our friends. Of course there are times we aren't happy, happy, fun, fun b/c of stress that comes up...I don't know I'm rambling now. I'm sorry again to go on, but reading it hurt. Ok, I'm done, I'll try and not talk about it anymore.

jacse007

It sounds like she is very jealous of the attention he give you now, instead of her. Were they close before he met you? She probably is too self-centered to realize he is happy, she is just assuming he isn't because he doesn't confide in her or treat her how he used to. I don't think you are reading too much into it at all, in fact she may be trying to make you look bad. She sounds like a pathetic person who is thriving for attention and you two seem like easy targets. I wish I could come up with a witty comeback for you but unfortunately that would just feed the fire. I think your best bet is to talk to DH about it, let him know your feelings, and then ignore it to the best of your ability. Or tell her she is a pathetic excuse of a sister to him because you see all kinds of shine and fun in him, sorry if he doesn't want to show it to her anymore!

Jacquiemark

So, is she saying that you are not one of the one's that loves him the most??? Well that is crap.

Hmmm, it does seem that maybe she is jealous of the relationship. What I don't understand is why write a blog about it online. I would feel a little hurt as well, it makes it seem that he is not happy with you.

hopingwaiting

Sounds like she likes a lot of drama.  I am sure reading that hurt, but try to ignore her.

suntoto@gmail.com

She wants a reaction- she is a drama queen.  She made a big deal about you "friending" her knowing full well she posted something that would cause a reaction.  IMHO, she is just trying to get back at you for "destroying her Fathers day plans".  IMHO the best action is to simply not give her a reaction. 

Dochas

She misses her brother.  Life goes on, she'll get over it.