anyone else worried about nipples as erogenous?

alibabbbs

This is a serious cross-post. I posted on BF and 0-6 this morning, but people aren't really biting.

Here's the deal. My nipples are super-sensitive. I'm not so much concerned that I'll get off on BF (can't imagine!), but more that my sex life will change because me &/or MH will perceive my breasts differently. How can you not, right? Anyone else thought about this, or have you experienced it?

nofreespeeches

<---- thinks there might be a reason people aren't really biting.

lkich

I've thought about this too. DH loves my boobs and I'm sure after seeing my BF-ing this will have to change him some. How can it now. Maybe things will go back to normal when I'm no longer bf-ing but who knows. Honestly, I don't mind too much, my boobs have never really done it for me.

peeper72

All I've experienced is that I am repulsed when DH touches my nipples lately. This is poor timing given that he is enchanted by the larger version of the ladies

madhatter2003

Honestly, while I"m bfing my boobs are a no-dh zone, at least for now. I leak too much to get 'in the mood' by him touching them.

Your sex life is going to change anyway once a baby is in the house, but that doesn't mean it'll be worse or bad, just different. ie more quickies in the shower while baby naps, etc.

JMKaut

I've thought about it, but not really worried about it. I figure that when the time comes DH and I will talk about it and deal with it.

erindawn

Mine are super sensitive and I hate them being touched, etc. so I worry about that.  They basically tickle to the touch.

kellyperk85

Mine really aren't sensitive at all .. but I haven't really thought about the fact that feeding our child will change our sex life.  After the typical 6 weeks (hopefully with no C-S) we will probably be like savage beasts for sex.  I hope I understood your post right .. ?

JCsMomma

Yeah, the girls were sort of off limits when I was nursing my son... but during that time our sex life wasn't super active anyway.  After the BF'ing was over things were definitely back to normal.  I don't think DH looks at them any differently after the fact than he did before, and I don't either.  During that time sure, but they are serving their purpose and it wasn't weird for either of us.

Evelynsmom

For a couple months after my weaning my first child I didn't want DH any where near my nips.  I had begun to look at them as a feeding tool (for lack of a better term) and not sexual at all.  That went away though.