If you were trying to bounce-back from bitter disappointment, what would you do for yourself?

summerbrideDC

I am fighting the urge to swan dive into a giant chocolate cake because I am such an emotional eater. ?But I know I'll only feel good while I'm eating it, and then I'll feel even worse afterwards. ?

But I'd like to do something for myself to help myself feel better about all the disappointment with TTC, and missing this whole month altogether.

I have such a hard time spending money on myself, especially given all the cash we're throwing at my uterus every month. ??

Jodi&Joe

The ideal --- exercise.  Seriously, what an outlet.  And it's a "high" that lasts.  And it makes you feel good about yourself.

But Jodi's true answer --- in your situation, I would be scheduling a massage and a pedi for tomorrow.

DandelionMom

Watch a ridiculous movie (Shakespeare In Love) while painting my nails a sparkly, candy-like color.??

BubblyToes

I buy yarn. 

My yarn stash is drool-worthy, yet slightly disgusting. 

Jen2124

Maybe a nice relaxing massage? Or a nice new haircut/color? (But I'd be tempted by the chocolate cake, too).

I just read your post below and I'm so sorry ;(

pincushions

Bad habit.... I over exercise and under eat. I know BAD.. but nothing makes me feel more "cleansed" then exhausted and empty.

morbid much.

KrisBriMcBunny

what I've done for years is listen to music on headphones and play solitaire with a deck of cards....for me its the perfect escape.

r9stedt

Drink. A lot. Go check yourself in to a hotel and spa for a weekend! And then drink. A lot.

isabella22

I use to try and plan something that I couldn't do pg each month if I ended up not pg.

Vineyard tour... rock climbing... sky diving (haven't done this yet)...

oparcm

1. exercise is my outlet, especially heavy weight lifting

2. I'd do a massage

3. shop a bit

4. read a good book

or all 4 is really nice

 

Treat yourself, you are worth it and deserve it.

soxfan

exercise -- sounds crazy but do some abs, jumping jacks, high knee kicks -- buy a jump rope , hoola hoop -- one for you one for your little one.  might be fun.

Bubbles, bubble bath, wine

Rebekah1021

I say go and buy a new pair of shoes. It doesn't even have to be an expensive pair, then hit the gym or the treadmill

summerbrideDC

Oh, Pin, I wish exhausted and empty worked for me. ?

thanks, ladies.?

camrude

I'm also one for exercising. If you run - I would do that. Crank the music and just go. I'm also one for retail therapy. Is there something that normally you would not buy yourself? If you are a makeup person maybe head to your favorite makeup counter and get a little makeover. A good pair of shoes or awesome purse can usually perk me up too.

I feel so bad for you. My sister is going through her own struggle right now (cannot stay pg) and watching her go through this just makes me feel so bad for those that are going through pg issues. Again, I'm sorry :-(

Jodi&Joe

summerbrideDC:

Oh, Pin, I wish exhausted and empty worked for me.  

thanks, ladies. 

Big Fat Ditto here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  And I do mean FAT!

A-baybride

Hey S, I just read your other update, and I'm so sorry.  What a waste of a month.  Any chance you'll extend your cut-off point, at least until you've exhausted all options with the RE?  I'm getting stressed out by your upcoming deadline, I can't even imagine how you feel!

I know you don't want to spend much, but did you ever get your weekend in a local hotel you were thinking about?  I'll bet you could find some last minute deals that would make it pretty reasonable (before your bar, room service and spa bill!).    The Omni is having a buy one weekend night, get one free promotion.  It's downtown, so not as ideal as the beach, but hey, the weather sucks anyway.

I also like the idea of doing something you couldn't do while pregnant.  You could satisfy your emotional eating urge by pigging out on sushi - at least it's healthier!