I was filling out an application for an agency this weekend and it questioned child care. When I look at profiles of other couples, I notice many will have a SAHM. I guess DH and I (especially after the adoption cost) will not have much of a choice and both of us will work. I feel like I am being greedy by wanting so badly to adopt a child and then I will be leaving the child in care of a facility part time and family part time. I'm curious as to how others handle this and am also looking for comfort that it's not wrong to adopt a child and then leave them for 40 hours a week.