My mother-in-law's birthday is Monday and DH of course doesn't care what we do (u know men) and FIL is not the most thoughtful person and MIL just had hip surgery. Would you invite them over for cake and dinner? Just cake? Or would you call and ask what they are doing?
My natural instincts make me want to do it all, dinner and cake but don't know if I am overdoing or stepping on FIL's toes. Suggestions?
Re: WWYD for MIL?
I was thinking the same thing. Maybe making some yummy dinner and treats for dessert. If she's up for company then enjoy it whichever location is better for her, if she's not up for company drop it off for MIL and FIL to celebrate at home. Either way, food would probably be greatly appreciated!
Ditto! I think asking FIL will prevent him from feeling excluded too.