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Nicavesani

LMAO... I just told my mom the situation and she yelled "Her mom (bride's mom) is being a total ***!" ?LOL.?

I think this is one that I'm going to have to wait out to see just how old he really is... I would love to just plop him in a sling and take him like that. ?In fact, I may leave him for the ceremony and then go get him and take him to the reception. ?We'll see. ?

lmorgan

First of all I totally agree with what everyone else is saying.  2 weeks is totally too close.  To me it would have to be something that was planned based on when you actually deliver but that isn't feasible really for wedding planning.  If baby comes 3 weeks early then you'll potentially be good to attend.  But if you go over your due date like lots of first time mommies do then there is NO f-ing way that you will up for a wedding, especially one that you are supposed to be involved in.  Good lord I can't imagine.  Honestly I would say its too close.  Ive had several friends have babies recently and they have all said that for several weeks they were emotionally and physically recuperating.  Your friend is being ridiculously selfish and should really understand.  I would MAYBE consider doing the wedding IF they allowed the baby to be there.  Your hubby could take care and leave if baby had to fuss.  But to not allow the baby there?  Give me a break.  Your new baby trumps her wedding.  And like previous post said........bridezilla comes to mind.  Tell her mom to stick it.  I mean really?? "sometimes you can't be there for our babies"  At 2 weeks, not her call!  Its your baby, your body and if they want you there that bad then baby goes with.  Honestly though regardless of all the other stuff, I would NOT want to have all the responsibilities of a maid of honor super pregnant or recovering.  I would tell your "friend" all these things and have her go with someone else.  Good luck, sorry you are even being put in this situation.  She may be pissed but some day when she has a baby the lightbulb will go off. 

McCutie

This wedding will be the last thing on your mind once you give birth...

I wouldn't even do this with my 3rd baby but I have no problem telling someone...esp. my best buddy....I would think she would understand...

Anywho...even if you give birth on time, things happen recovering.....god forbid an infection or someting along that line....

And you will be too tired and too concerned about your baby to even enjoy your self....