So we are on our way to SA (rant)...

Lina1123

I have been really emotional lately. I just have a feeling this cycle isn't our cycle. I know my temps look good, but I just know I'm not PG. It's weird. I told DH that in order for me to keep going through these ups and downs emotionally, I need to know he is OK and healthy. We made an appt with his primary Dr. for Thursday, 9am so he can refer us to a urologist for SA. I am glad b/c if he isn't OK, I will not do clomid next cycle until he is healthy. I just don't want to go through this again without KNOWING he is OK. And if he isn't ok, we could correct what is wrong. I just have a feeling something isn't right with him hate to say.

mandy4678

I am a little confused why you didn't have the SA before you started taking clomid...that's what my doctor required.

NatesDoll08

good luck with the SA...I agree with knowing that he is ok...that was our plan I didn't want to go through more than I had too since it can mess up our systems....

jshay778

Good luck Lina!!

Marielle0430

mandy4678:

I am a little confused why you didn't have the SA before you started taking clomid...that's what my doctor required.

This. 

bobbidall

GL with SA!  Hopefully everything is okay!

Lina1123

Our Dr. doesn't require it but recommends it during the 1st cycle of clomid.

Lina1123

Wordsmith226:

(((hugs))) Lina, I totally understand why you are upset.  I think you should be having an SA to be sure.  I agree with PP tho, why not sooner? 

This was my 1st cycle on clomid. And I wanted to try b4 incurring the expense. Well, I just know I am not PG so off we go to SA.

050507BRIDE

My ob/gyn told me she won't run any tests on me until my DH gets a SA. She says that she does this because she wants to avoid having to do any tests that may be unnecessary if it turns out that DH is the one with the problem.

Anyways, good for you for making your H get a SA. Hopefully everything is okay with him.

 

Bcbscorp

Either way I think it will relieve some stress and be a good thing! Good Luck with the SA!!

AJflowers

I totally agree.  My Dr. asked if DH would be OK getting checked out 1st b/c it's the easiest thing to rule out if he is fine.  I said, "oh, yeah.  He'll def. be fine w/that." LOL  Luckily that was our first move, b/c he's in to see the IU today! 

Don't feel bad about going w/your gut.  DH had a feeling it was him.  People just know sometimes.  GL.  I hope that he's fine, or that they can help w/whatever's wrong.

InsyNCurtis

Hey! I'm sorry you are feeling out this cycle but I think your chart looks amazing... when are you going to test?

GL with DH's SA (if you need it). I'm trying this new optimism thing... we will see how long that lasts. lol.

ladyprof

We did one cycle on Clomid before the SA, just to see if I could ovulate with the medication. When we upped the Clomid, before we did that next round, we got the SA.

mystic_J

GL girl! Don't apologize for getting this SA- DH and I had a feeling too, and it turned out to be the best thing we have done so far, since he had something wrong. GL!

mamabear7

GL with the SA - its easy enough to do and it could save a lot of frustration.  I'm so glad it was one of the first tests we did as we found out about DH's issues.  So far, I'm okay.

PS - your chart does look amazing!!!

Lina1123

jme515:

GL girl! Don't apologize for getting this SA- DH and I had a feeling too, and it turned out to be the best thing we have done so far, since he had something wrong. GL!

I just feel so bad, b/c DH is apologizing that he didn't do it earlier and he said to me, "maybe it is me" in such a sad voice. And he has been so supportive and told me he would do whatever it takes to make ME happy. He makes me so mad all the time, but when it comes to real-time stuff, he is such a great husband.