Does your DH/FI share...

Sweetgurl6630@yahoo.com

your personal problems with his mother? Like if you are fighting about something??

Poplin2007

No.

browneyes_24b

Depends on the topic.

GRKaters

Ew, no.

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electricdoctor83

Nope, I'd kill him if he did.

HockeyWife4Life

My DH doesn't share our personal problems/issues with his mother or anyone else for that matter.  My DH is pretty close with his mother and talks to her on the phone and in person all of the time but he doesn't talk about that kind of stuff with this mom.

Mama Jan

DH doesn't really talk to his mom about anything.  So, no.

Mrs.Teddy

No. my ILs are way over involved in our lives as it is. We try to keep them at a safe distance. I also try not to share these problems with my mother. I have learned that friends & the bump are better venting places. Mothers are far to defensive/protective.

MattysGirl81

Absolutely not.

Suparstarz714

Not usually... however she has her way of butting in anyway...

cmyers6278

Hell no. I would kill him.

SheriBT

No because usually we can talk it out and move on while she'll still hold a grudge.  The last thing I need to hear from her is "remember that time you fought about...."  No thank you.

pbraty23

Not really his family always expcets us to just give them money when they ask. Which pisses me the fvck off because we live with my parents and they are a huge help to us. So in a way is like whats the point of my parents helping us when your mom and sister are always asking for money. He thinks I just think less of his family which I dont at all I love his family as diff. as they are from mine. We do agree on all the other problems we have with his family like his mom expecting us to just drop DS off to spend the week with her. Im so not comfortable to just drop him off and leave him there like nothing how her other Daughter in law does. They are a crazy bunch I tell ya.?

RubyRed1085

He used to... but then he started to see how crazy his mother was and he knows better to say anything about me to her.

sprice88

no- and I don't share that with my mom either.

Sweetgurl6630@yahoo.com

Thanks guys. I'm embarrassed to say that mine does and it bothers the hell out of me. I will be having a talk with him tonight. It's getting old. Thank heavens we live 1500 miles apart!!

thequeeenbee

We, as a couple, tend to share our problems with my MIL, but it's just because we get along really well. If DH and I are having a relationship problem, we normally work it out between ourselves. If we need any outside help, we just pray about it.

mfc2b4

no, but he has shared them with my mother, which I was totally not happy about after my mom told me.

Deirdre18

Hell no...I would be so pissed if he did that.

pbraty23

Hahahaha I so misunderstood the question. Sorry?

heidismith

sprice88:

no- and I don't share that with my mom either.

Ditto, I dont think anyone should share relationship problems with moms because mothers never forget and they will always remember the bad stuff!

cupcake_queen

Nope. Sometimes I think I'm closer to her than DH.

CubsGirlNYC

no

grace&ricky

No way...I share with her sometimes and he gets annoyed at me.

MuckDiva

No.  Why?  What did DH do?

howa0155

Yes.  Enough said.

katie_cj

No.  And I don't share our problems with my mom.

Becky262

He used to.  I put a stop to that shiit

#1 It's none of her business 
#2 Even if he tells her the two of you have made up, all she'll remember is the bad stuff.  And trust me, she'll use it against you  :P

Mrs.Veldy

No. We made a deal before we were married that we wouldn't share personal issues with our families. Thankfully we haven't had many but we witnessed it with DH's brother/SIL and we wanted to part of it! 

water-fairy

No.

EarlyIowa

thank god no.

bridetobe05

No!

emaria

hell no.  in fact we're a united front when it comes to all family and if either one of us talked about our personal problems with anyone else we wouldn't be married. 

Idhreniel

No, we tend to work things out on our own.

Jen&Joe06

hell to the no.

rebus82

He made that mistake some years ago, and I tore him a new one. I think he learned his lesson. Of course, he and his friends seem to have a "biitch about our wives" session every Sunday, so I don't think he needs his mom for that anymore anyway.?

NikkiDave221

Becky262:

He used to.  I put a stop to that shiit

#1 It's none of her business 
#2 Even if he tells her the two of you have made up, all she'll remember is the bad stuff.  And trust me, she'll use it against you  :P

I so agree!  DH used to share with his mom, and she turned it into her own little personal arsenal against me whenever it suited her.  It didn't even matter if he and I were arguing or not.  If he crossed her, she took it out on me.  What's funny is, he used to try to make excuses for her until she stole my cell phone from him while I was out of town.  He asked her if she saw it, and she blatantly lied to him even after she saw him stressing because he was going to have to pay to replace my phone.  Now he just keeps it general, and I don't speak to her at all.  It should be really interesting after LOs are born since she and my SIL are flying down to visit.  Talk about crazy family!!