After discussing the cost of daycare for two infants versus my income and then all the other changes and responsibilities we have coming our way, we have decided that I am going to stay home with the babies.
I am in Ohio, and work for a very large national company. My employer gives 12 weeks 100% paid maternity leave. Is there anything I should know about quiting once my 12 weeks is up? I don't feel comfortable asking my supervisor about this, because I honestly don't want them to know ahead of my taking leave that I don't plan to return. I've been told by numerous family and friends that I shouldn't say anything UNTIL I give notice. I certainly plan to give them notice before my 12 weeks is up, but I do not plan to "return" to work. Is anyone aware of any liability I'm leaving myself open to?
I know the simplest thing might be to just call my HR line, but I have this insanely, irrational thought that if they find out beforehand it wouldn't be good. Should I just call them? How open about my intentions should I be? Thanks for the advice!
Re: Using FMLA and then leaving job
Usually you have to go back for a certain amount of time to ensure that you won't have to pay back a portion of what you were paid while on maternity leave. I have a good friend that did the same thing. She never said a word while pregnant or while she was on leave and went back to work when the time was up, then after a few weeks she gave her notice. I think in total she was only back at work for a month, but it was enough that she wasn't penalized. HTH.
Uggggggh.
This is exactly why companies don't like to hire women who are pregnant or of childbearing age (legal or not), and why so many assume that women who work will screw their company over.
Do the responsible thing and let them know before you go out. They're paying you that money and holding your job because you're an employee they value and would like to keep. It's not right to have them pay you out and hold your job in this economy, only to leave them holding the bag.
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This is what is so ridiculous about these types of posts - women can make these decisions and disreagrd the ramifications for other working mothers.
My thoughts exactly.
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i thought i was going to leave my job at the end of my leave. I told my boss i wasn't sure what i wanted to do, because honestly, i didn't know. I ended up wanting to go back early. I was required to work 30 days after returning to keep my 100% maternity leave pay - i ended up working for several months until i was laid off.
I think if you know for sure you don't want to come back, and you work just 30 days (or whatever) to keep the $$, that's pretty crappy. if you're honestly not sure, then talk to your HR rep and tell them you'd like to know how the policy works so you can make an informed decision. if your HR has benefit information online/in print form you may be able to find out that way as well.
This has been bothering me since you posted as I also find this to be selfish. But, I think what bothers me most is that your company will hold your job for you because they have to by law. That would also mean laying someone off, just so your job was safe. Personally, I find that worse than having to pay back any money.
I too work for a large national company, one that it always rated in the 10 as a "Best Places to Work" and I know that in a few months we are headed for layoffs. Who knows, they may give you more for saving someone's job.
This.
So you want them to pay you 100% on mat leave, hold your job while making the other employees work twice as hard because they legally can't hire a replacement, then you are going to call them up and be like, "Oh, btw, i'm not coming back, so all that time you could have been training a replacement, you're just SOL. And thanks for the free money."
This is crap. If you do this, good luck ever finding another job.
This.
So you want them to pay you 100% on mat leave, hold your job while making the other employees work twice as hard because they legally can't hire a replacement, then you are going to call them up and be like, "Oh, btw, i'm not coming back, so all that time you could have been training a replacement, you're just SOL. And thanks for the free money."
This is crap. If you do this, good luck ever finding another job.
this. don't do it. it makes it harder for all of us to be taken seriously.
If you know for certain that you won't be returning, I think you should tell them beforehand.
However, many women really can't make that decision until it is time? Some women that plan on not returning to the workforce want to. Others that plan on returning, find that they can't.
I would ask your HR rep what would happen in the hypothetical situation that you weren't to return, what the consequences would be.
Also, to someone that said they would have to lay someone off to hold a job - were there layoffs - that is not the case. If a position is eliminated, it doesn't matter about maternity leave - it's not protected in that regard.
Thanks for perpetuating the stereotype that women can't be professionals.
You're an assshat. Glad I don't know you.