There's a chance our house could be done earlier. We wouldn't be able to get a lease (anywhere we'd be comfortable) for less than 6 months. We spend a lot of time with my parents anyway and they have the room, but I'm just not sure I want to go there. My mom and I get along great, but my dad can be a bit of a PITA (he does travel a lot for work, though).
How awful could it be?
Re: Would you (could you) live with your parents for 4 months?
Yes, I would. I have no shame in making sacrifices (such as my sanity) if it's going to benefit me (my family) in the long run.
DS - December 2006
DD - December 2008
Never. I would just eat the cost of a longer lease/pay a lease break fee.
I think grown children living back at home is a bad scene.
I could.........DH could not and would not. He hasn't "lived" with his parents since he was like 12 or something.
We just finished building and moving into our new house in March. Our old house sold in January so we moved in wiht my sister for a little over 2 months. We faced the same issues...trying to find a lease for month by month, which was way expensive. So with a definite end in sight it was easy, and actually sortof fun.
Our lease was up 2 months before our house was finished and we were set to close. We didn't really have any other alternatives but we also didn't have any babies yet. We did it and it went by pretty fast! MH was working long hours and I was in school full time and working part time so we were mostly there to sleep.
If I had to do it now I probably would. I spend a lot of time with my Mom during the day and keep pretty busy. Plus the savings would be very nice before moving into a new house! GL with it and I'm sure it will work out in the end.
Without kids, just dh and myself, I would consider it. With kids...no way. I could just see my IL's judging the way we are handling our kids, trying to step in, or doing things differently with them when we had our backs turned. It wouldn't work. And I really like them, but they have much different ideas that we do.
I'd rather pay two extra months of rent.