Pregnant after a Loss

Confessions anyone???

Anyone else feeling like they really need them? ?

Mine are:

*Last night I freaked out because I was worried I won't be a good mom. ?

*A good friend is pregnant for first time and made some comment about how I should just enjoy my pregnancy. ?I wanted to punch her in the teeth. ?I've basically been pregnant for 21 months, thanks. ?

*She also made comment about how she's been reading how your emotional state impacts baby. ?I know she didn't mean it this way, but it felt like she was saying my stress/worry caused my losses. ?

*I'm a dessert-aholic!!

Re: Confessions anyone???

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    After having a week off work and morning sickness finally kicking in, I'm a little scared to go back to work next week. I don't know how I'm going to a) function and b) hide it from my colleague who knows about my previous m/c. She is already on pregnancy alert with me and I don't want her to know yet! I feel lame for not wanting to work... but I took two 2 hr naps today and I really needed them!!
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  • * See below post--I eat like crap!

    * I broke down last night and I have no idea why. Hormones were definitely raging.

    * I still get jealous of other pregnant people. Again, I have no idea why I just do!

    * All I do is think about what my next meal will be. My parents invited DH and I to Chili's for dinner tomorrow and I've been thinking about Kickin Jack nachos ever since. Horrible.

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  • Found a good friend is having pregnancy complications at 20 weeks...and has to go see a specialist...and all I can think about it that I hope that doens't happen to me, and I hope that I can at least make it to my first u/s next week!

     

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  • * My OB is totally going to regret telling me to eat more at my last appointment...I have a feeling I'll be getting the opposite advice on Monday

    * I'm almost too fat for the maternity clothes I bought last summer when I was thinner....stupid giant thighs

    * My belly is so big I worry I'm having twins and don't know it

    * Now that I told people I think I'm having a boy, I'm pretty much sure I'll be having a girl because God thinks it's funny when I'm wrong...I'll be happy either way

     

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    * Now that I'm in my 2nd tri, I'm not so much worried about m/c...now I have been worrying myself about pre-e, toxemia, umbil cord accidents, high b/p, etc...UGH, will I EVER stop worrying?!!! :-(
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    * Now that I'm in my 2nd tri, I'm not so much worried about m/c...now I have been worrying myself about pre-e, toxemia, umbil cord accidents, high b/p, etc...UGH, will I EVER stop worrying?!!! :-(

    Me too!  I also worry about my cervix and pre-term labor!

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    * Now that I'm in my 2nd tri, I'm not so much worried about m/c...now I have been worrying myself about pre-e, toxemia, umbil cord accidents, high b/p, etc...UGH, will I EVER stop worrying?!!! :-(

    Me too!? I also worry about my cervix and pre-term labor!

    Ugh, yup add incompetent cervix to my list too!

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  • Oh what a great idea! I can totally use confessions today!

    * The last few nights I have gotten out my can of chocolate frosting and had several spoonfuls of it....and yes, I will probably do the same thing again tonight. Embarrassed

    * I am wearing all and only mat clothes now, and while ob isn't worried about me looking so pg already I am. I worry that I will mc again and people will ask me about the baby the next time they see me, thinking I have already had it...

    * I have an unreasonable fear about becoming 10 an a half weeks pg, it was when I finally naturally lost my b.o. Which is silly bc I know that there is a baby in there right now- I've seen the hb twice already! I just want more than anything to be in 2nd tri, that is when my ob said he will be more comfortable with this pg for me.

    * oh, and I cry at absolutely EVERYTHING!!!!!

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  • Wow - I so needed this confessions tonight!!!

    *I am resentful of DH who will be in school for the next 6 years getting his PhD.  He was super busy with school work and now that the semester is over he has a huge project due at work and works late nights/weekends (this has been going on for about 3 months).  I feel like I'm a single pg person and have to do all of the house work/yard work/bills/baby stuff, etc.  I'm totally overwhelmed, stressed, and tired.

    *I am so done with being pg.  I already feel really uncomfortable - my back is killing me, I have kankles and horrible heartburn  (I know I'm being a huge wuss and just feeling whiny tonight).  I wish I could just skip the pg part and have her here with me!


     

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  • * I really dislike my husband at the moment..

    * i'm glad the baby is healthy but I wish it would have been a girl, long story...

    * I don't feel hungry lately, and I haven't been eating very much....I worry about it but I still can't make myself eat

  • * I have been missing being on here this week, my screen broke on my pc and I just got one from my Bro to borrow.

    * I love lookingat my belly, but my creeping up weight freaks me out a little.

    * I am so excited about this baby, I can not wait for her to come so I can kiss her and hold her!

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