Hi Ladies,
So I think this is an irrational fear but I feel like I have heard a ton of labor stories where they talk about the cord being wrapped around the neck, knots in the cord, etc. It makes me really nervous. Does this really happen that often and is it usually ok? TIA.
Re: Worried about the cord during labor
DD#1 born June '09
DD#2 born April '11
TTC #3 as of July '14
I worry about that too. It's such a freak accident and is so scary. I don't have any advice on how to not worry about it though
Maybe part of the reason it seems like a more of a real possibility to us is because we're on a board with women who have had all kinds of losses so everything seems like it could happen.
It is actually more common than they let on, but rarely does it ever cause fetal death. Ethan had the cord wrapped around his neck and everything turned out just fine. After our experiences I am a fan of being monitored during delivery because they can watch the baby's heartrate and see how it handles contractions etc. Typically if their is a cord around the baby's neck the heartrate will decelerate during a contraction. That is what was happening with Ethan and the nurse was freaking me out and telling me to prepare for a c-section. However, he came so quick that I was able to deliver him vaginally.
On the flip side, my friend's daughter had the cord around her neck and due to OB error, her daughter lost some oxygen and consequently has a very minor form of CP. So it is important to find a doctor that you trust and who will take those extra precautions.
9 angels in heaven-3 in my arms and 1 in the NICU
Mono/di twin girls: Josephine born to heaven and Evangeline born Earthside at 25w
DS was born with the cord around his neck. It is scary to think what could have happened, but he is perfectly fine. I ended up delivering him a couple weeks early because of it though. I took a test where you click when you feel the baby move, and there wasn't much movement. The Dr. did an ultrasound, and he saw the cord around DS's neck. He signed me up for the next possible induction, which was the next evening at midnight. DS was a huge baby (8 lbs, 1 oz), and I am tiny, so I originally thought I might end up with a c-section anyway.
Also, the Dr. did not tell me the cord was around his neck until after DS was delivered--he didn't want me to worry. But DH saw it when it came out.