Porn

ssm0825

Husband has a friend who LOVES his porn.  Ive been to his house 4 or 5 times and he always has videos out or we get to his house while he's looking at it. He's not ashamed and will even walk back to the computer and sit down and continue looking, right in front of me!  My husband has been hanging out with this friend quite a bit recently and I cant help but imagine that they are being "guys" and partaking in some visual action from time to time but who knows.

It never really bothered me before but I find that I have been thinking about it when he goes to pervy's house.  Could it be the fact that I am growing bigger by the minute and feeling more and more unpretty? Maybe. 

What is your stance on the naked women watching?  Have you ever caught your guy? 

 

stefani6124

We both like porn and watch it together... doesn't bother me at all but usually I'm watching with him. I think guys watching porn together is a little strange but not surprising...

mrsmyers8

I do not have a man who likes porn.   On that note, i get how it could be hard for you at this time.  Try not to let it get to you honey...  I know sounds easier than it is...

kristeljade

I wish DH would watch porn.  Getting it on is getting more difficult by the day.

jennabee13

We've watched porn together, I'm generally okay with it. My only rule is that if he does, to please do it when I'm not here. I've been awoken by the sounds of porn in the middle of the night before, and it made me a little angry.

Mrs.Teddy

DH watchesporn alone, we have watched together a few times but I am nto really into it. I would rather watch soft porn or just a steamy movie. It does bother me because I look NOTHING like those girls & I think it bothers me more so now becuase I am getting larger everyday. He resassures me he think sI am beautiful etc, so I try not to let it bother me too much. Especially since I have been on pelvic rest, which he has been good about so I figure if thats where he is getting his current fulfillment, since I'm so not into thats not too bad. At least his hoem with me and not at some strip club or bar.

zoieglow

DH doesn't like porn but I do. I would think it was really strange if he was watching porn with another dude though...

Samantha82

We watch it together sometimes.  And if I'm gone for a few days I don't mind if DH watches it one his own.  I wouldn't want him watching it alone while I'm in the house, though that has never come up because he's not THAT into it.  And I think it would be weird if he watched it with another guy.

angiec418

if my DH was watching porn, I would feel like I wasn't good enough to turn him on.

ssm0825

It may be more common than I thought.  I dont know if he's watching it with the dude I was just saying.

 Do you think watching it helps or hurts your sex activities?!!

 

stefani6124

ssm0825:

It may be more common than I thought.  I dont know if he's watching it with the dude I was just saying.

 Do you think watching it helps or hurts your sex activities?!!

 

It definatley helps for us... but only because we both like it.

MrsHengel

To be completely honest, before marriage it was one of those things were not into, but considering we have been apart 2 out of the 3.5 years we have been married, sometimes both of us do end up taking a peek here and there. I can understand your feelings completely. Before our first baby I was 110 lbs and in marathon running shape. It still made me feel like what you are describing when he would look at it while he wasn't deployed and I was available to him (hmm, that's the best way I can put it). I just try to remember that the few times I do look at it, I couldn't even tell you what color hair the male model had 5 minutes later. It isn't about trying to find someone to physically replace my husband. I'm sure somebady will disagree, but that is how I see it....

Samantha82

ssm0825:

It may be more common than I thought.  I dont know if he's watching it with the dude I was just saying.

 Do you think watching it helps or hurts your sex activities?!!

 

I think it helps.  And I actually think DH gets more excited over the fact that I'm watching it than the actual porn.  But we really only watch it once in awhile.  Like a few times a year.

*edit* I don't know if "helps" would be the right word.  It just spices things up once in awhile.  We're perfectly fine on our own, and actually have not watched it in about a year.   It's illegal in India and we were living there for most of the past year.

NewMommy2BeFinally

stefani6124:

We both like porn and watch it together... doesn't bother me at all but usually I'm watching with him. I think guys watching porn together is a little strange but not surprising...

THIS!

realisticdreams

We generally watch it together..

However a few months ago, about 6 now I was on his computer getting a resume or something and I found 6 videos that were all of the same girl, so it because less of a it's just porn thing ot more of a how many times has he got off to THAT girl thing.  I was mad and upset and hurt and he really didn't see why.  He told me that he hadn't watched it in forever, and that it was one video in seperate parts...

It's a fine line between hurting someones feelings and not, you just have to have trust and talk about it.

TarheelsInNJ

Does it weird anyone else out that guys watch porn together?? I find this very bizarre.

ladysingstheblues

angiec418:

if my DH was watching porn, I would feel like I wasn't good enough to turn him on.

I used to feel this way, years ago.  You must learn not to look at it that way.  Porn has absolutely nothing to do with you.  He's not watching it and thinking, "Oh, I wish my wife looked (or did) like that."  They're in another world... a porn bubble, if you will.  Separate from reality and their beautiful wives

That being said, if my H was watching porn with a buddy, I would tease him relentlessly about being a 14 year old boy, lol.

NakeyaR25

stefani6124:

We both like porn and watch it together... doesn't bother me at all but usually I'm watching with him. I think guys watching porn together is a little strange but not surprising...

This.

SmallandNeedy

I love porn, and we have a blast watching it together. If he watched it alone, I'd get mad, though. Not MAD... just hurt that he didn't want to involve me. If he watched it with his buddies, that wouldn't bother me. But his buddies are really good guys.?

BeanieWeanie

My DH and I both watch porn, sometimes together, sometimes not. I guess when we watch it together it helps our sex life, but even when we don't it definitely doesn't hurt it.

beastmel04

Porn= No biggie in my book.  However, the sex hasn't been what I would like it to be lately, and I am getting a little more sensitive about watching it than I used to be. 

chloephoebecali

Porn is great.  I watch it with and without DH as does he.  I don't mind if he watches without me because sometimes I need a break.

Blissful Me

I personally find porn disgusting and what it has done to families is awful. It can be very addicting and I've seen it really tear marriages apart. My husband does not watch porn and neither do I.?

benifer224

I woul be upset if he were watching it behind my back. We do watch it together at times. I wouldn't be comfortable with my Dh friend if he was doing that kind of stuff at his house with me there. I don't think my dh would be comfortable either.

DiscusCoach

I know DH does. I don't mind as long as it doesn't interfere in our sex life. We have watched something together a couple of times.

wendylea73

I feel like our sex life is so amazing BECAUSE of porn! My SO and I watch together and both really enjoy it...but I know he watches without me too and I'm ok with that. He has learned so many "tricks" from the videos...I actually appreciate it when he tries something new!