DandR

xbrooklyngrl

I know you aren't on much but I saw your post and I just wanted to say I'm thinking of you. I hope you get to the bottom of whatever is going on.

hugs!

joseysbride

ditto!  I caught up this morning, and I don't know what I'd do in your situation.  It's awful to even think that something like that could be going on, especially since you've talked so much about how you all love her.

DandR

Thanks ladies...

we talked to her about everything except the bruises...we didn't want to accuse her of something that we have no clue if she is at fault....and I'm feeling much better.

I'm still getting a nanny cam...but my DH is being a d!ck about it.  He thinks we are wasting money...he truly doesn't believe anything bad can be going on and thinks we should confront her with the concern about the bruises....my point is, if we do, its not like she's going to say "oh yeah, I got pissed at your brat and caused those." or anything....she probably will say I don't know or whatever.  So I need the camera to just SEE what's going on during the day...piece of mind.  I'm entitled to it and they only cost $200 bucks or so....far less than her weekly salary. 

Anyways...gotta go back to work...but I appreciate the kind words.  You never know how this place will react....and I truly was expecting a flaming for allowing my children to be in a home alone with someone who I currently am having issues trusting 100%. 

xbrooklyngrl

I'm glad you spoke to her and feel a little better. I'd probably get the nany cam too although I can see myself becoming obssessed with watchign it.

Whatever the case, I'd just always talk to the girls and get as much info as possible.

Its so hard trusting people and honestly, what fool would trust anyone 100%???