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Back from my NYC trip with an awful story....

summerbridesarasummerbridesara member
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We had a great time at the Bachelorette party.  We ended up doing a dinner cruise on the Hudson.  It was awesome.  However, I had a very traumatizing experience at the hotel beforehand.

My cousin thought she lost her tampon.  So, of course, since I'm a nurse, I'm supposed to be able to figure out if she did or not.  YUCK.  My aunt (cousin's mom) begged me to go over and just "look and see" if I could spot the missing tampon.  Um, gross.  My cousin laid in the gyn position so I could look.  It.was.disgusting.  I wish I would of just said "hell no!" in the first place.  I couldn't see anything and there was NO WAY in hell that I was going to touch there!!!!  That image is burned in my mind and I want to vomit.

So that was the very lowest point of the weekend.  Other than that, we had a fabulous time on our dinner cruise and I got some great video and pics.

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Re: Back from my NYC trip with an awful story....

  • sdkrlmsdkrlm

    OMG _ that is totally disgusting.

    I'm laughing with you... oh wait ... you're not laughing

    I'm so sorry

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  • ocean71506ocean71506
    Omg, that is awful. I am glad the rest of the trip was fun!
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  • pumpkinhead06pumpkinhead06 member

    ugh.. that's just gross that they would assume you would do that.

    did you tell that yes you are a nurse, but there are boundaries that NEED  to be followed...

    gross.gross.gross.

    you are a much better person than I!

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  • YukonCYukonC

    You might be the best cousin ever.

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  • rowanthefrogrowanthefrog member

    I don't have a lot of limits, but I would have to say that is WAY WAY over whatever ones I do have.

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    Glad you had a nice weekend though....


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  • CJinMDCJinMD
    that is horrible!!!
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  • jnealetjnealet member
    Oh gross! For some reason I can't picture that lesson at nursing school or any school.  It sounds more like a job for her mom.
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  • CrazycrustaceanCrazycrustacean

    O.M.G.!!!!! That is horrible. I'm glad the rest of your weekend was good though.?

    WTH is wrong with people? How could you ask your cousin to go searching for a tampon? I mean it's not like the deep caves of mexico in there. Go feel around for yourself in the shower or something. ?

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  • MayBride2B2007MayBride2B2007 member
    um, ew. so did you find it? ;)
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  • MoinMoinMoinMoin

    so i want to know, how did the story end? tampon or no? how can you 'lose' it?

    sorry, that is traumatic! 

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  • summerbridesarasummerbridesara member

    For clarification purposes...I did not touch the vajajay in any way, shape or form.  I told her that since she wasn't able to pull one out, I'm pretty sure there is nothing in there.

    YUCK!

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  • DontblinkDontblink

    OMG..you are a good person!

    I am glad you at least had a great time after that trauma!

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  • Sueball1Sueball1 member

    Wow.

    Just wow.

    Hugs, darlin'. That must have been traumatic! There is such a thing as boundaries, even in familes.. ::shudder::

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