TTC After a Loss

Now I get it

I have always heard people talk about how they are stuck between boards. I never understood what they meant, until now. I don't want to keep posting about me here. And I am definately NOT ready or willing to leave you wonderful ladies. But I am really not comfy in SAL yet either. Sucks.
Oct 2008 m/c #1 5 weeks, May 2009 m/c #2 4w5d. BFP 6/23/09 EDD 3/8/10!
You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. -Eleanor Roosevelt
After 1 year of TTC#2 BFP May 2011 m/c #3 4w2d. Off to RE.

Round 1: Femara + Ovidrel +TI = BFP! EDD 2/20/12
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Re: Now I get it

  • Keep posting here!  It's where you're comfortable!
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  • Keep posting here! I don't post a lot but I love reading everyone's updates.?
  • I love hearing about you...keep posting here!
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  • Totally agree. It feels weird to be on a board with people who are talking about feeling movement and baby showers. I definitely feel closer to the uncertainty and waiting of TTCAL than the "OMG HOORAY!" of SAL. In good time, we shall make the permanent move. :)
  • i'm sure it's hard but don't leave us.  :)
  • JenyMJenyM member
    ditto! Sal freaks me out when there is bad news.
    BFP#1 missed m/c-d&c 10/27/08, BFP#2 BO-natural m/c 5/15/09, BFP#3 8/12/09-DS born 4/2010, BFP#4=TWINS-missed m/c&d/c 6/15/11, BFP#4 11/22/11- please stay with me
  • I totally don't want to leave you guys. I just hope I don't offend anyone with any of my posts. I am so scared still. I don't know if that ever goes away.
    Oct 2008 m/c #1 5 weeks, May 2009 m/c #2 4w5d. BFP 6/23/09 EDD 3/8/10!
    You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. -Eleanor Roosevelt
    After 1 year of TTC#2 BFP May 2011 m/c #3 4w2d. Off to RE.

    Round 1: Femara + Ovidrel +TI = BFP! EDD 2/20/12
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    2IF does not always equal 3IF...Surprise!
    Lilypie Maternity tickers
  • Post wherever you feel comfortable. You have a good support system here and I'm sure we all want to hear about the updates.

    I'm in between boards right now too (PL and TTCAL). We're going to start trying in August, but I like the inspiration of this board, so I hope nobody minds if I stay here.

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  • This is my thought... I know you dont want to offend people, but we were all here for you when you were TTC, and waiting to test and when you finally got your BFP.  We WANT to know how you are doing... and if there is someone that doesn't want to hear about betas and Dr. appt. they dont have to open the post! 

     I still feel terrible that all that happened the week that Cora got her BFP and she didn't want to offend anyone so she just left.  Just my .02 though! 

  • We love you here.  You are welcome to stay and post!
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  • imageknelli:

    This is my thought... I know you dont want to offend people, but we were all here for you when you were TTC, and waiting to test and when you finally got your BFP.  We WANT to know how you are doing... and if there is someone that doesn't want to hear about betas and Dr. appt. they dont have to open the post! 

     I still feel terrible that all that happened the week that Cora got her BFP and she didn't want to offend anyone so she just left.  Just my .02 though! 

    thanks! I was really new here when this stuff went down with Cora and it made me sad because I was just getting to know her and was really feeling encouraged and inspired by her and the others. I even debated on leaving then because I was afraid if I got a BFP that I would feel lost and alone again. I need you girls, for real. For support and to laugh my a$$ off when needed. It means a lot that I can come here.

    Oct 2008 m/c #1 5 weeks, May 2009 m/c #2 4w5d. BFP 6/23/09 EDD 3/8/10!
    You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. -Eleanor Roosevelt
    After 1 year of TTC#2 BFP May 2011 m/c #3 4w2d. Off to RE.

    Round 1: Femara + Ovidrel +TI = BFP! EDD 2/20/12
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    2IF does not always equal 3IF...Surprise!
    Lilypie Maternity tickers
  • imageknelli:

    This is my thought... I know you dont want to offend people, but we were all here for you when you were TTC, and waiting to test and when you finally got your BFP.  We WANT to know how you are doing... and if there is someone that doesn't want to hear about betas and Dr. appt. they dont have to open the post! 

     I still feel terrible that all that happened the week that Cora got her BFP and she didn't want to offend anyone so she just left.  Just my .02 though! 

    Well said. 

    I welcome your posts.  It makes me smile and it gives me hope and inspiration to see someone go from a loss to a success.  In good time you should feel more comfortable posting on SAL, but in the meantime you have a loving support system here, who would like to continue cheering you on and will always welcome updates.

    bfp #1 12/25/08 mc 2/5/09 at 10w6d bfp #2 6/25/09 bfp #3 2/28/11 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BabyFruit Ticker
  • Jen-dale, I totally know how you feel!
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