Mixed feelings about Michelle's Special Ed. evaluation today!

KrisBriMcBunny

Michelle's eval is this morning at 8:45 and I'm a wreck about it.  I was so anxious to get it done but not anymore.

On one hand I want her to qualify so she can get the help she needs to succeed, but on the other hand I'm hoping they would find nothing so she would be this "perfect" child.  Nobody wants to see their child struggling with life!  I guess I'm afraid of them finding out she has something more serious.

Maybe a hot strong cup of coffee and a hot steaming shower will help get get over this feeling.

Brewster

As a special ed teacher, I can tell you what you are feeling is completely normal.  Most parents do not want their child labeled in any way. Just know that the whole purpose of special education is to get in, remediate, and then dismiss the child from services.  By doing this now, when she is 2, your need for intervention at a later time will significantly decrease.  Trust me, you are doing the right thing. 

I hope you get the answers you are looking for and the proper services (if needed) to help Michelle grow and stay on track.

kylara111

I know exactly how you feel.  Zoe qualified for services because she had a speech delay.  She progressed and was eventually dropped from the program, but I still worry about her having problems later.  Her therapist mentioned that studies show that kids with speech delays sometimes have trouble reading later on.  I'm sure she'll be fine, but I have a feeling we may have to work with her. 

Anyway, you're not alone!

Alibabs

Good luck! I hope all goes well. It's natural to be nervous.

Yodajo

I think I would feel the same way.  Good luck this morning and let us know how it goes!

((hugs))

aprilmomtobe

I'd feel the same way, but you know you are doing the right thing for her. Either they tell you she is fine, which is great, or they tell you she needs some help, which is great too because you'll be giving her what she needs.  It's a win-win

MichelleWP

Good luck! I know exactly how you feel, we had my 5 y/o's triennial review a few months ago and I actually threw up twice before it (tmi, sorry). Just remember you're doing everything you can to help her succeed and to make her struggles as easy as possible.

Andrewsgal

(((HUGS))) I agree with Brew. You are doing the right thing for Michelle. You are an awesome Mom.

amanda&rob

(((hugs))) You are doing the right thing!

TxGal

Best of luck! Keep us updated!

sweetie1528

best of luck!