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getting a little down.

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I'm just losing confidence in the whole TTC thing.  All the fun was certainly gone over 15 months ago.  DH has a hard time being able to be interested because we are so frustrated.  (He is plenty interested in other times.) It has had a negative impact on our relationship. ..and only gotten worse since I started clomid/HCG.  I have felt general discomfort and had a few yucky side effects, which makes me less interested in the BD (even when it should just be for fun and without pressure.)  

 Its like you do all of this waiting and then you have this flurry of activity and then you wait again, and then month after month, nothing. 

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  • lovesinthehouselovesinthehouse
    I totally understand how you feel. It gets really hard. I don't have any advice, except that keep trying to work on your marriage in the midst of this. Marriages always take work, so don't give up. Hopefully we'll get our babies soon. (((BIG HUGS)))
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  • DrDPMDrDPM member
    I'm sorry you're feeling down; I wish that I had some magic words to make it all easier for you. Have you tried a new hobby, or something to help keep you distracted during the waiting?  Maybe a weekend getaway with DH to get back in touch with one another without any pressure of baby-making?
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