I am so tired of trying...

isabella22

If you have had trouble TTC, can you please share some tips for getting excited to try... yet again.

I am traveling a bunch for work, we have a lot of sick family issues going on, DH is getting sick, and I am fertile.

We will find some way to suck it up and (LOL, insert word that rhymes , but does anyone have any advice?

Thanks.

Rebekah1021

Ship your DC off overnight if at all possible. my DH is having a bout with gout right now and can barely walk, but I am making him give me his deposits.

He knows how hard this is, so he's willing to do whatever, but just try to keep it sexy.

isabella22

Oh no, that is awful.  I hope he gets better soon!

Shipping her off overnight isn't possible and I hate to get a sitter since I am traveling every weekend (thank goodness I am Oing during the week!).

I will try and muster up some romantic strength tonight   Any in-house romantic suggestions, anyone?

Rebekah1021

Wine and pretty nighties work well! Start sending him dirty texts to get him in the mood too

HappyTXChick

I'm sorry, I know it sucks and I wish I had some advice.

It took us 1 year with 1 m/c to get pg with DS.  Talk about forced sex for WAY too long!  So after we had DS we never avoided getting pg with #2 and I hoped we would "accidently" get pg w/out trying.  But no, It still took an additional 5 months of actively trying (CBEFM monitor, counting, etc.) and its the worst sex ever!  We just had to remind ourselves that it was for a good cause.  Good luck!

rumpunch21

Ditto the wine and dirty texts!!! It took us 15 months to conceive #2. I know just how frustrating it gets and how "unsexy" it can become. Randomly for us, we conceived the month an RE told me I only had a 6% chance of ever getting pg naturally. We weren't "trying" that month after hearing that. Anyway.. I feel for you, but I'm a HUGE fan of dirty texts to get you in the mood