Freaking out about delivering!

raisingarizona2008

??Lately I have almost felt like a panic attack is coming on. Especially when I think about delivering both the babies. I am going to try vaginally but see what happens. I probably have about 3 nights/week where I dream about delivering them, but it always ends in c-section.

??I am afraid I won't be a good mother, lack of sleep, ect. My in-laws are also planning on flying here days after they are born and this is stressing me out. I feel like I still have so much to do, but so little time.........

Sorry, just had to vent

Melissa ?

JustaKidAtHeart

breathe.... you will be fine..... you will be great.....whatever happens happens and if the house isnt perfect it doesnt matter because anyone there wont be looking at that because they will be busy with the babies.  Panic will only lead to stress which can lead to early labor, increased complications and more likely for a c section.  You can do this..

macchiatto

(((Hugs))) I remember that feeling. Huge changes coming up and it's hard to fully prepare just because you never know quite how things will play out. I know it's easier said than done, but take deep breaths and take things one step at a time. All this CAN be done!

Alycia04

What they said! You will do a great job with your babes in all the upcoming aspects. Keep positive thoughts in, expel negative/worrisome thoughts and breathe!! I delivered all my kids vaginally, so if you have any questions, feel free to ask

lajolla09.30.06

I occasionally had moments of panic about delivery but honestly it all happened so fast once it did happen that I didn't even really have time to be nervous or think about it.  I know it is gonna sound weird but I just sort of followed directions and it just happened... I delivered vaginally and I am so glad that I did.  Easy recovery, no surgery, happy and healthy babies. 

You'll do great!

raisingarizona2008

Thanks you guys! ?I think it is best just to deal with one thing at a time and I will try and breathe. Lol.

Thanks!

Melissa ?

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seattlestef

Melissa- I feel EXACTLY the same way right now. My husband is so calm and collected and I'm getting more and more nervous every day. I guess the best thing we can do is follow pp advice and just try to relax because these babies are coming soon no matter what!