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**Comotu**

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You can just call me graves. I personally do not know what happened today, but I will share some insight. It is good to lurk and not just throw yourself out there. Boards are really protective? If that is even the right way to say it. They like to get to know people first. Which is really understandable. With that said, welcome

Just curious, did you and your BF decide not to get married? Or are you trying before the wedding? I am not meaning to be insulting, I really am just curious.

 

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  • a.gravesa.graves member
    I was asking comotu. I did welcome her in the other post. Unless you are her. I am sorry if I insulted you. That was not my intention. Like I stated, I am just curious. And no it does not matter. It was just a question. I have friends who have been together for 13 years and are not married. I do not see a difference.
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  • Rhonie82Rhonie82
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    Well I guess I am insulted anyway, wow.  That is not a nice welcome.  This should not be a clicky type atmosphere...

    We have been together a looong time, over a decade.  Engaged and getting no younger.  So yes, we are and have been trying for some time TTC.  Frankly-does that matter?

    *looks @ subject line*


    Lapband wife wanting a baby since 2008. 162lbs lost...30 more to go.
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  • 10YearsTogether10YearsTogether
    :::10yt was here:::
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  • christinakpricechristinakprice member
    My apologies, sorry.  My mistake :)
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    ~ Miscarry at 8 weeks with D&C in May 2011 (low progesterone).
    ~ Had a healthy baby girl in June 2012 via C-Section (on prometrium to sustain).
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  • ukantuchdisukantuchdis
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    imagechristinakprice:

    Well I guess I am insulted anyway, wow.? That is not a nice welcome.? This should not be?a clicky type atmosphere...

    We have been together a looong time, over a decade.? Engaged and getting no younger.? So yes, we are and have been trying for some time TTC.? Frankly-does that matter?

    *looks @ subject line*


    yeah well it is a bit judgemental. ?why does it matter if we get married or not. ?we are comitted and are planning to TTC. ?I don't see your point.?

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  • Rhonie82Rhonie82
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    imageRhonie82:
    imagechristinakprice:

    Well I guess I am insulted anyway, wow.  That is not a nice welcome.  This should not be a clicky type atmosphere...

    We have been together a looong time, over a decade.  Engaged and getting no younger.  So yes, we are and have been trying for some time TTC.  Frankly-does that matter?

    *looks @ subject line*


    yeah well it is a bit judgemental.  why does it matter if we get married or not.  we are comitted and are planning to TTC.  I don't see your point. 

    I don't think she was trying to be. Just curious. I always wonder why some people put the cart before the horse also.

    Why did I get quoted? I didnt ask the question lol.

    Lapband wife wanting a baby since 2008. 162lbs lost...30 more to go.
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  • a.gravesa.graves member
    How was it judgmental? I was just curious. And it was just a question. Sorry it you took it that way.
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  • ashopaholicmomashopaholicmom

    I didn't think she was being rude either.  And we got pg before we were married.  Actually...we didn't get married until DS was a little over a year.  

    Why?  Well BCP didn't work. Got KU during our "engagement" vacation to be exact.  But I honestly wouldn't have had it any other way.  Having our son at the wedding made it incredibly special.

    Anyway,  Good Luck to both of you! 

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  • justinlovesmejustinlovesme
    I second that she wasn't trying to be rude or anything.  She was just wondering. 
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  • a.gravesa.graves member
    Sorry that you took that as rude, or judgmental. I was just asking questions to try to get to know you.
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