Parenting

I'm angry

Yes, most of this is flammable material.  Stop reading if you're going to judge/flame me.

I'm angry because:

I can't be one of those women who look better after they have babies.
My house is a wreck.
I'm weaning.
My baby is a fussy-mussy.
My DH sucks at helping me around the house.
I haven't had a day "off" since DD2 came.
I have two messy dogs that I have to take care of too.
I pee when I laugh/cough/sneeze.
I have hemmorroids.
I don't have more money.

I think that's it for now.  I'm feeling better now that I wrote this down.

Oh, one more:
Edward Cullen is not real.  I'm pissed about that too.

Thanks for letting me vent.

Re: I'm angry

  • LOL at Edward Cullen

    I could have written this post word for word. I know totally how you feel, other than the weaning and that will probably come soon. My house looks like a hurricane hit and DH also SUCKS at helping me.  I totally know how you feel!

  • Aw, Sum, i'm so sorry!! Besides have Baby No. 2, I think I could write that same list! I hope you start to feel better soon. Just do what you can to do things for yourself. If only I was closer, I would totally help you. =(

    (((HUGS)))) 

    BTW- you and your daughters are absolutely GORGEOUS! I've been meaning to tell you that for quite a while now. =)

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  • You had me at peeing when you cough!  I so know that sucks.
  • imageWifeyLindsay:

    Aw, Sum, i'm so sorry!! Besides have Baby No. 2, I think I could write that same list! I hope you start to feel better soon. Just do what you can to do things for yourself. If only I was closer, I would totally help you. =(

    (((HUGS)))) 

    BTW- you and your daughters are absolutely GORGEOUS! I've been meaning to tell you that for quite a while now. =)

    Oh Wifey, I love you.  I really do.  You're always so nice to me!  It's nice to "see" you on!

  • I feel your pain.

     

    ((hugs))

    Diagnosed with PCOS June 2004 Abby born 2/2007 and Ally 3/2009 imagehttp://Life In Sublurbia.blogspot.com
  • yeah I'm laughing at the Edward Cullen comment too lol

    I'm sorry you are feeling this way!  But just want to say that not only are your girls gorgeous....you are very pretty too.  I've always thought that!

    (((((HUGS)))))

    Josh-10/1/87, Brittany 3/9/91, Mandi 7/26/92, Michelle 9/11/06 image I'M GRAPE JELLY- ALWAYS AROUND & ALWAYS THE SAME If I leave here tomorrow, would you still remember me. For I must be traveling on now. Because there are too many places I've got to see. -Allen Collins & Ronnie VanZant My favorite verse!
  • WHY CAN'T TOYS PICK UP THEMSELVES!??

     

    I'll see your angst and up you an 'I'm not happy with my body.'

  • imageSumnerBride:
    imageWifeyLindsay:

    Aw, Sum, i'm so sorry!! Besides have Baby No. 2, I think I could write that same list! I hope you start to feel better soon. Just do what you can to do things for yourself. If only I was closer, I would totally help you. =(

    (((HUGS)))) 

    BTW- you and your daughters are absolutely GORGEOUS! I've been meaning to tell you that for quite a while now. =)

    Oh Wifey, I love you.  I really do.  You're always so nice to me!  It's nice to "see" you on!

     Aw, Sum, thanks! I love you too girly! I just hate not being able to help you!

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  • You wanna know how my house is getting cleaned? I am packing it up and moving.

    I feel for you, sister.

    AKA KnittyB*tch
    DS - December 2006
    DD - December 2008

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    this makes me feel better...... Edward Cullen may not be real, but pictures RP is just as tastey!

  • Hugs!  Well, from here, you look gorgeous and your girls are adorable.  Does that help?  Probably not.  You really do deserve a break and to have more help, so I hope you find a way to make that happen, whether it's from your DH or paid help (or not, given the money comment!) or family or whatever.  Hang in there!
  • Thanks Pin!  I've been checking out my Twilight blogs all day, looking for Rob porn.  I'm close enough to Vancouver that a drive might be worth it today.
  • imageCubbyMama:
    Hugs!  Well, from here, you look gorgeous and your girls are adorable.  Does that help?  Probably not.

    Ditto this. You're gorgeous! But I know that doesn't help when you feel gross.

    I'm sorry, and I surely hope you get a break soon.

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    Alex (11/14/06) and Nate (5/25/10)
    "Want what you have, do what you can, be who you are." - Rev. Forrest Church
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    I'm gonna add one:

    I am angry I have to go back to work on Monday :(

    HUGS Sum, we are here for you!

  • (((hugs)))
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  • (((hugs)))

    But, um, you are gorgeous!!!

     

  • I wish I looked one tenth as pretty as you.  Honestly, look in the mirror and appreciate how gorgeous you are right now.  Try not to focus on the things that are different.  Your body did an amazing thing! (Now if only I could do this myself!)

    As for the rest of your list, if DH brings home a dog tomorrow I'll be with you word for word.  The hemroids really suck don't they?

  • REOMREOM member

    ((HUGS))

    Two is no joke, right?

    I feel the same way a lot too. 

    A piece of advice, if you want sympathy for not looking good, you might want to take that GORGEOUS picture of yourself out of your sig :)

    xoxo

    DD1 12.18.06 DD2 9.18.08 DD3 EDD 5.10.2012 BabyFruit Ticker
  • I pee when I laugh/cough/sneeze.

     LOL!  Thank goodness I'm not the only one.  1 yr after #2, and I swear it still happens (more than I'd like!!) Does it ever go away??!

  • Girl, I'd offer advice but the Dora in your siggie scared theshit out of me. Kidding, seriously, well, not really. LOL (((HUGS))) I think you're doing a great job. Hang in there.
    Kill all my demons and my angels might die too. -Tennessee Williams

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    You take my ovaries, I take your yarns.
  • I completely agree with everything on your list and wish I had some words of wisdom for you.  I have to agree with all the other girls though...I have always thought you are so pretty.  I hope you get a break soon!  Being a mommy is hard sometimes.  (((HUGS)))
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