my bff has adopted 2 children from outside the country, she's currently 5 months pregnant and her DH laid a bomb on her 2 weeks ago that he's been unhappy for the past 10 years... of course she didn't see it coming but even worse he told her this morning he was filing for divorce.
i just don't know what to say/do for her right now. She's pretty much job-less and they have spent so much $$ on the two adoptions that she has no savings, no nothing to fall back on. and she's just to the point of begging him not to stay, she's in such a bad spot right now and he's just kicking her when she's down (so to speak, not literally).
she's such a strong person, but with this miracle pregnancy i just don't know how to help her. We don't live super close and i'm a SAHM so I have to take my DD with me wherever I go...
her mom is on her way to stay with her right now and help her collect her thoughts (she lives a couple hours away).
i'm just not sure where to post this (which board) but i know adoption is hard on families (they have only been married for about 4 years)
any help or advice i can give her?