I am a new mom-to-be (baby to arrive in 20 weeks!) I am registering for stuff and this whole car seat thing is a dilemma for me. I found a travel system I like and a separate car seat I like, but I'm not sure which route to go...
I like the idea of the travel system because (1) if I buy 2 bases, we can easily put baby in my car or DH's, and (2) I like not have to take baby out of the carseat to move her to the stroller if she is sleeping or something. I like the separate car seat / stroller idea though because I hate the thought of just having to buy another car seat a year from now. Seems like a better investment to just buy a good convertible car seat that'll last longer.
I thought maybe I'd ask some experienced moms what they think. So, any advice to offer? TIA!
Re: Should I buy a travel system or separate car seat and stroller?
Having a travel system is fantastic. Once they fall asleep you do NOT want to wake them.
That being said, if I were to start over i'd buy the same Graco carseat, but not the stroller that went with it. I'd buy the Snap and Go instead. It's lighter, easier to get in and out of the car and still has storage space underneath.
I would have HATED life for the first 4 or so months without the infant seat, base, & stroller combo.
That being said, it's a wonderful thing for the first few months, only. After that, the baby gets too heavy to carry in the seat (although I only recently gave that up, and I can still fit her in the stroller in the infant car seat because she's a small baby). I also really like the "matching" stroller, so it was a good investment for me.
I also like that infant car seats are thought to be the safest option for newborns. So I'm willing to pay for a new convertible seat whenever my baby grows out of her Keyfit for the sake of safety & that convenience.
Seriously. Would have passed out & died if I had to wake my sleeping newborn to take her out of her seat every time I needed to leave the car. It's kind of a price versus convenience issue.
We followed the baby bargains advice, which is to buy an infant car seat, the bases and a stroller frame. It's the same idea as using a travel system, but the stroller is much smaller and easier to keep in your car. Then when he was big enough we bought a nicer umbrella stroller for when he didn't want to be in his car seat. This doesn't eliminate the need for a convertable car seat when he grows out of the infant one, but I bought the Grace Safety seat which has larger height/weight limitations, so at 9 months we're still happily using the infant seat. It's not light, but we don't carry him around it in all that frequently.
I will also agree with you, having the infant seat that they can sleep in is a huge bonus. Just think, if you need to run to a store, you put the sleeping baby in their carseat into the cart and do your shopping, you won't be able to do that with traditional car seat. Just a thought. I'm sure there are plenty of people on here that may think otherwise, but it's just my opinion.
We did not buy a travel system. I hate how the strollers look. It's me nitpicking, but oh well. I also live in the city and don't own a car, so my situation is a little different. We walk everywhere or take public transportation, so I didn't have to worry about waking DD because we would just walk in our front door with the stroller and she would continue sleeping. We have the Kolcraft Contour Options 3 Wheel, and I love it. It works great, it's cute, it is adaptable with infant seats, and it is heavy duty, which is great for city streets.?
We didn't get a travel system, and sometimes it would have been convenient but the strollers just didn't seem to suit our needs. ?We needed something very small and lightweight for every day and possible int'l travel, so we got a Maclaren Quest for that. ?Then we needed something more beefy for around the neighborhood b/c there are no sidewalks here, conveniently, so we got a Baby Trend Expedition for that ($100 @ Target). ?We did use the infant seat at the beginning but it was too heavy for me to carry and I had to take him out of it anyway. ?Lucky for me, my baby doesn't wake up and get pissed if you move him in his sleep.
I think, really consider which stroller will suit your needs because many of them will work with a variety of infant seats to make a travel system - sometimes you may need to buy a separate adapter and sometimes they just fit right on. ?I know the Maclaren Techno does and I'm sure other brands to too.
If I were buying it again, I would not buy the travel system. I think I used the stroller part 3 times. I am a babywearer, not a stoller person, but that's just me...I've only used the umbrella stroller about 5 times! The infant carrier was extremely convenient as my newborn frequently fell asleep in the car, but if you plan to put baby in a sling often (which is actually MUCH easier when out and about) the whole system is not necessary.
I just last weekend changed my tiny daughter to a convertible carseat and I cannot believe how much more comfortable she is in it.
Well, we had a infant car seat and then borrowed a snap and go. We also had a Bumbleride FLyer....it has a car seat bar but we rarely used it. Honestly, DS was such a great sleeper...I could take him out of the seat and put him in the Flyer and he wouldn't even budge.
We moved him into the convertible at 6 months since he was getting too long for the infant seat. We still use the Flyer but just picked up a Maclaren for short trips since the Flyer is pretty big.
and my 9 month old is still quite comfy in his infant seat!