We had a name picked out and EVERYONE had their opinion on it causing DH and I to think twice. We now have a name but are not telling and it is driving everyone CRAZY. People want to have things monogrammed and such and I just want to say well then you should have kept your opinion to yourself the first time. I like the name we have now much better.
I imagine I can tell you all...her name will be Makayla Evelyn. I do not think the two names go together, but Evelyn was my grandmothers name and is my Mom's middle name.
Re: anyone else keeping the name a secret?
We have both a girl and boy name picked out but haven't told anyone and won't until the baby is born.
It gives people way too much time to share things like, "oh, my mortal enemy in high school had that name" or "my first dog was named that" or "I always wanted to use that name."
No thank you
Btw, I like the name. Doesn't sound bad together either.
SAHM to two sweet girls, both born at home; Baby #3 in 2013!
We talked about names even before I got pregnant, so people already knew what we liked. However, DH and I have since come up with a better girl name and won't share it because of people's comments last time. We haven't come up with anything we like better for a boy, so they still know that one unless we change it last minute.
People wonder why we're not sharing, and we tell them the truth, but they're not upset that we're not telling.
We have not told anyone, not even you e-friends! Everyone will find out when we send his birth announcement with his monogrammed hat on.
I told my girlfriends his wall letters cost $40 total from PBK so they did the research and learned it was 4 letters. I have gotten about 200 guesses by now. One girlfriend guessed it, but she has no idea.
We told a quite a few people that we were calling her Olivia Grace. I got put off by how many people had an opinion on how popular it is - I wanted it as my Grandmother was called Olive. We've since decided to use Olivia as a MN and go with our other fave choice of Jennah.
Nobody knows what the change of name is except my family & SIL so I guess they're all getting a bit of a surprise.
We are getting so much grief over this! Everyone's like, "It's bad enough you aren't finding out what you're having, do you HAVE to keep the names a secret, too???"
Um, yes. Because I don't give a tiny rat's a$$ about your opinions on them. kthxbai.
Oooh, thats sneaky!
We aren't telling either for all the reasons posted above. We already shared the sex with everyone and I think that is enough. I like having our own little secret and my family/friends don't always filter inappropriate opinions. at one point I wanted some opinions and that is what the nest is for
This exactly. DH's brother said the same thing about a name we picked out. Now no one gets to know until Baby D arrives, so there.
I think those names go together great!
We are not telling ANYONE until he arrives, and I am happy that we chose to do that. Yes, it bugged people at first because they're nosy. We decided on the name around Christmas though, so they've had time to get used to it. Now, it's actually sort of fun- they're always coming up with new alternatives... and the favorite game is "What ISN'T his name?!"
We just sit and laugh... never saying a word
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We are not telling ANYONE - for the exact reason above...I am not interested in listening to people ramble on about why they don't like the name so we just won't tell them! And it's definitely killing people that we are keeping it a secret...oh well for them!
We don't share names. (well, I tell my Mom but that's it)
Did last time, aren't this time. Everyone will find out the name once the baby is here.
My mom knows, but that's it. We'd tell MIL, but she can't keep a secret to save her life, so that's a no-go.
I try and put a positive spin on it by telling people it's a "surprise"; that sounds better than secret to me.
We've definitely gotten slack about it; people have tried to guess, and one of DH's aunts grilled us asking why we wouldn't share. I just told her because we didn't want to. Not much she could say to that!
I've told only 1 person who I know will not tell anyone else.
Other than that we are keeping the name a secret. It's fun torturing everyone
Were keeping are name a secert also... I love the name you picked..
Our families know the middle name (after my grandma who died yesterday. We decided to use her name as the middle name a couple of months ago).
We're not telling anyone the first name.