3rd Trimester

Am I the only one?

::WARNING:: Late night thoughts... Off the wall IMO and there could be possible grammar and punctuation errors. I know they are there and don't care frankly Angel ::WARNING:: 

I know my late night ladies don't care nor are part of the grammar/punctuation police so I don't worry too much though

So here is the deal....

1) I still feel overwhelmed and anxious and nervous and everything in between about the baby coming.

2) Sonograms freak me out still. When she puts that thing on my stomach and I see the bones and face and feet and hands. It is off the wall wierd to me. 

3) Movement in my stomach is cute and I know it is the baby but I still chalk it up to gas sometimes. (again nervous about that a baby is in there!)

4) I have 2 bags of "hand me down" clothes from my aunt and the more I look at them sitting in the bag the more I realize....  Those 2 bags are not gonna cut it! Especially when most of the bag is filled with socks. I maybe have 4 onesies and 7 burb clothes... the rest is socks! (<<freaked out... can you tell????)

5) Vaginal discharge sucks (sorry just had to say that) 

6) OH yea so does back pain (lol had to say that too) 

 

I am sorry to vent/whatever I am doing but sometimes I just need to get things out and I don't have a blog so.... here I am. Telling yall. 

Does anyone else feel like this????

Re: Am I the only one?

  • Ok heres my confession.

    Sometimes I wish I weren't pregnant. I'm not sure DH and I can be good parents and I am really not looking forward to labor at all..

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  • I definitely felt like this with DS (but still do about the vag discharge situation).  Are you going to have any showers?  If so, you will get TONS of clothes there that you can fill that room up with!  If not, just buy a couple of things here and there.  Since this is baby #2 for us, we are not having any showers and have just been buying a pack of onesies or a cute outfit each week.  Wal-Mart (I know, there are haters) has cheap and cute clothes and we have just been stocking up!
  • imagedgurl26:

    Ok heres my confession.

    Sometimes I wish I weren't pregnant. I'm not sure DH and I can be good parents and I am really not looking forward to labor at all..

    OMG YES! I thought I was a bad mom for thinking it! I am so scared out of my mind! I am worried I will do it wrong or miss something! OMG my head runs with the thoughts and I feel like I am the only one most of the time reading all of these posts about woman being so happy and excited. 

    Don't get me wrong I have always been excited to be a mom but mostly because this pregnancy was unplanned I think these thoughts are swarming me. That is the only reason I can think of!

  • imagebmcquien:
    imagedgurl26:

    Ok heres my confession.

    Sometimes I wish I weren't pregnant. I'm not sure DH and I can be good parents and I am really not looking forward to labor at all..

    OMG YES! I thought I was a bad mom for thinking it! I am so scared out of my mind! I am worried I will do it wrong or miss something! OMG my head runs with the thoughts and I feel like I am the only one most of the time reading all of these posts about woman being so happy and excited.?

    Don't get me wrong I have always been excited to be a mom but mostly because this pregnancy was unplanned I think these thoughts are swarming me. That is the only reason I can think of!

    This exactly. I'm scared to sh!t.?

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  • You are both so funny!  It is normal to feel this way!  I already have a child and sometimes I am worried about if I will be a good mom to this baby.  I also remember my life before kids and (not that I would trade them for anything) but I remember how easy it was to go grocery shopping & when I didn't have to find a sitter to go to the doctor.  I would not change my life, but sometimes it would be easier with less baggage. 

    That being said, we make choices and I would not trade my life now for anything.  I love my DH and kids (yes, she counts too) more than anything else in my life!  Trust me, once that baby is in your arms, you will KNOW that everything will turn out fine.  Of course you will make mistakes, but the important thing is to learn from them and become a better parent because of it!

  • imagebmcquien:
    imagedgurl26:

    Ok heres my confession.

    Sometimes I wish I weren't pregnant. I'm not sure DH and I can be good parents and I am really not looking forward to labor at all..

    OMG YES! I thought I was a bad mom for thinking it! I am so scared out of my mind! I am worried I will do it wrong or miss something! OMG my head runs with the thoughts and I feel like I am the only one most of the time reading all of these posts about woman being so happy and excited. 

    Don't get me wrong I have always been excited to be a mom but mostly because this pregnancy was unplanned I think these thoughts are swarming me. That is the only reason I can think of!

    We were TTC for almost a year and then I started thinking it would never happen again and I got the point where I wasn't expecting to get pregnant and kind of didn't want to anymore and what happened?? I was not expecting to hear that I was pg. Don't get me wrong I am glad I am theres just some days...
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  • So this isn't to freak you out, but just reality. You're going to mess up as a parent, and no one is perfect. The fact that you're worried means you are a good parent because you're already wanting the best for that child. As long as you give them love and discipline you will be a fine parent.?
  • imagebrownmouse:
    imagebmcquien:
    imagedgurl26:

    Ok heres my confession.

    Sometimes I wish I weren't pregnant. I'm not sure DH and I can be good parents and I am really not looking forward to labor at all..

    OMG YES! I thought I was a bad mom for thinking it! I am so scared out of my mind! I am worried I will do it wrong or miss something! OMG my head runs with the thoughts and I feel like I am the only one most of the time reading all of these posts about woman being so happy and excited. 

    Don't get me wrong I have always been excited to be a mom but mostly because this pregnancy was unplanned I think these thoughts are swarming me. That is the only reason I can think of!

    This exactly. I'm scared to sh!t. 

    Honey, don't be afraid to sh!t.  Take some Colace, eat some fiber.  It will be fine!  hahahaha!  I crack myself up!

  • imagemommastemme:
    imagebrownmouse:
    imagebmcquien:
    imagedgurl26:

    Ok heres my confession.

    Sometimes I wish I weren't pregnant. I'm not sure DH and I can be good parents and I am really not looking forward to labor at all..

    OMG YES! I thought I was a bad mom for thinking it! I am so scared out of my mind! I am worried I will do it wrong or miss something! OMG my head runs with the thoughts and I feel like I am the only one most of the time reading all of these posts about woman being so happy and excited.?

    Don't get me wrong I have always been excited to be a mom but mostly because this pregnancy was unplanned I think these thoughts are swarming me. That is the only reason I can think of!

    This exactly. I'm scared to sh!t.?

    Honey, don't be afraid to sh!t.? Take some Colace, eat some fiber.? It will be fine!? hahahaha!? I crack myself up!

    Haha! My entire first tri...I was scared to sh!t....I cried every time I felt like I had to go....Soooooo painful.

    Um...yeah....TMI...?

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  • imagebrownmouse:
    imagemommastemme:
    imagebrownmouse:
    imagebmcquien:
    imagedgurl26:

    Ok heres my confession.

    Sometimes I wish I weren't pregnant. I'm not sure DH and I can be good parents and I am really not looking forward to labor at all..

    OMG YES! I thought I was a bad mom for thinking it! I am so scared out of my mind! I am worried I will do it wrong or miss something! OMG my head runs with the thoughts and I feel like I am the only one most of the time reading all of these posts about woman being so happy and excited. 

    Don't get me wrong I have always been excited to be a mom but mostly because this pregnancy was unplanned I think these thoughts are swarming me. That is the only reason I can think of!

    This exactly. I'm scared to sh!t. 

    Honey, don't be afraid to sh!t.  Take some Colace, eat some fiber.  It will be fine!  hahahaha!  I crack myself up!

    Haha! My entire first tri...I was scared to sh!t....I cried every time I felt like I had to go....Soooooo painful.

    Um...yeah....TMI... 

    Naw not TMI and so me lately! FUN!...
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  • imagebrownmouse:

    Haha! My entire first tri...I was scared to sh!t....I cried every time I felt like I had to go....Soooooo painful.

    Um...yeah....TMI... 

    I didn't find out I was pregnant until I was already in my 2nd tri (irregular periods and such)

    Imagine going though all that 1st tri sh!t thinking "I am going nuts!"

    Never thought I could be pregnant!  

  • not the only one.

    i am totally freaked out too. about everything. my body (before during and what about after) the discharge, the baby, the baby moving, all the aches and pains, the doctors visits. we are in escrow so we dont have a nursery yet. i have no place to put her! and wont have any place until 3 weeks from now. (maybe, hopefully) and i only have 8 more weeks. i am hoping she doesnt come sooner but at the same time i am so done being pregnant i want out already. i am freaked about EVERYTHING.

    i too thought i was the only one.?

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