*blondiem*

~somdgirl~

For the post below you are the biggest _bitch ever. Karma's sucks. How could you say that to someone. Your so _fucked up. Get back on your meds.

 

*blondiem*:

nbjenni:

My H left us Monday night. He has yet to ask to see the girls, but has sent numerous texts about electronics and money. I know he will send me a text, or have his mother call me, to see if he can see them on Easter. My answer will be absolutely, unequivocally no. The f*er can rot in hell for all I care, after what he has put me through.

And you want more kids with this man?

Seriously??

punkfiction

what is wrong with what she said? I am equally confused as jenni posted on the "dh - can he do it" thread about "oh! we divide the load equally! blah blah" - so which is it? him leaving doesn't sound like everything is equal. just bc blondie called her out for being an idiot and saying at one point she wanted more kids with him - and "he can rot in hell" at another point?

ameliasmom

I am hoping it comes back to bite her.  Marital problems are so hard to deal with.

~somdgirl~

punkfiction:

what is wrong with what she said? I am equally confused as jenni posted on the "dh - can he do it" thread about "oh! we divide the load equally! blah blah" - so which is it? him leaving doesn't sound like everything is equal. just bc blondie called her out for being an idiot and saying at one point she wanted more kids with him - and "he can rot in hell" at another point?

How about being supportive, she has 2 not one child like most of us new Moms. They say most divorces happen the 1st year after a new baby. I think its great she tried to work it out. I just don't think we need to break her down more when shes down. She needs support, not _bitchy people.

I am not surprised you backed her.

punkfiction

~SoMdGirl~:

punkfiction:

what is wrong with what she said? I am equally confused as jenni posted on the "dh - can he do it" thread about "oh! we divide the load equally! blah blah" - so which is it? him leaving doesn't sound like everything is equal. just bc blondie called her out for being an idiot and saying at one point she wanted more kids with him - and "he can rot in hell" at another point?

How about being supportive, she has 2 not one child like most of us new Moms. They say most divorces happen the 1st year after a new baby. I think its great she tried to work it out. I just don't think we need to break her down more when shes down. She needs support, not _bitchy people.

I am not surprised you backed her.

she is calling her out for the opposite things she says on the board. don't pretend that life is dandy in one post or that you want more kids with him - and then expect sympathy in another post.  thats not how it works. and good for blondie for hopefully waking nbjenni up to realize that who in their right minds would have more kids with some "f_ucker" that she hopes "rots in hell". wtf? you cant have it both ways, somd.

nbjenni

punkfiction:

what is wrong with what she said? I am equally confused as jenni posted on the "dh - can he do it" thread about "oh! we divide the load equally! blah blah" - so which is it? him leaving doesn't sound like everything is equal. just bc blondie called her out for being an idiot and saying at one point she wanted more kids with him - and "he can rot in hell" at another point?

He did do everything 50/50. Like I've said before, I believe he is bi-polar and refuses treatment. He can have many months of being normal and happy, and then out of no where hit a huge slump. During his normal times things were great, and I honestly could have seen us having a third child. However, he refused any sort of treatement or therapy and I got tired of dealing with those one or two days of him being a total dill weed. And his leaving was definitely wanted on my part. I'm not playing the "poor pitiful me, my honey left" card.

And and some point in time, I do want one more child. Even though I have two already, their newborn stage is such a blur. You got to experience it twice with your girls.

*blondiem*

LMAO. You are whacked, SoMD.

Jenni has stated hear on more than one occasion that she wants more kids. I am only objecting to her previous statements.

He is abusive to her. I don't like to see her or her girls going through that.  And to want more kids with a man that just leaves when he thinks it's too much is something I will most definitely speak up about.

You know what happened to my mother, now STFU.

And go on continuing to think that I am a meanie, based on crap you hear from different people.

 

*blondiem*

~SoMdGirl~:

For the post below you are the biggest _bitch ever. Karma's sucks. How could you say that to someone. Your so _fucked up. Get back on your meds.

 

SoMD. Newsflash. You don't know a single thing about me or my life. You are P-sycho. Now please, leave me alone.

And how about you go take a grammar lesson. You need some edumacation.

~somdgirl~

*blondiem*:

LMAO. You are whacked, SoMD.

Jenni has stated hear on more than one occasion that she wants more kids. I am only objecting to her previous statements.

He is abusive to her. I don't like to see her or her girls going through that.  And to want more kids with a man that just leaves when he thinks it's too much is something I will most definitely speak up about.

You know what happened to my mother, now STFU.

And go on continuing to think that I am a meanie, based on crap you hear from different people.

 

No I don't know what happened to your mother. I am not even going through that again. I just know it has to do with a gun. I  am not saying she needs to stay with him. Being a twin and coming from an abusive household, I know how stressful it is. I would never say to stay in that situation. I had my sister to get me through. I still to this day fight to keep the _asshole that abused us in jail. As a matter of fact I have a court date on May 13th, on my birthday of all days. So happy _fucking birthday to me. So I don't think she should stay, but I don't think you need to kick her when shes down.

~somdgirl~

*blondiem*:

~SoMdGirl~:

For the post below you are the biggest _bitch ever. Karma's sucks. How could you say that to someone. Your so _fucked up. Get back on your meds.

 

SoMD. Newsflash. You don't know a single thing about me or my life. You are P-sycho. Now please, leave me alone.

And how about you go take a grammar lesson. You need some edumacation.

Its a chat board. I have an education, I make brochures and press releases on a daily basis at work. I don't stress for proper grammar and punctuation on a chat board. Nice try but FAIL. That is the oldest put down in the book.

Janimal

After all the stuff nbjenni has posted throughout her pregnancy and after the girls were born, honestly, I am also shocked that she would consider having more children with him.  It does sound a bit crazy to consider having more kids with this dude.  I mean, I don't think anyone would disagree that he's less than an ideal choice for Father of the year after all the crap he has pulled.

And although we all want to support nbjenni -- and nbjenni my personal wishes to you is that I wish you all the best, whether this split is permanent or temporary, you gotta do what you feel is best for you and your girls -- since when do we censor opinions on here of stuff that is shared so openly.  Blondie questioned nbjenni's judgment in considering having more kids with this guy.  While some would prefer nbjenni only get puppies and ranbows posts after her awful news, that doesn't mean Blondie's response was so bad.  Honestly, nbjenni can take it.  She is holding her own in a crappy situation, I hardly think Blondie's comment was so awful for her.

And karma - scharma.  Bad things happen to good people.  Good things happen to bad people.  And if you think typing one sentence on a messgae board will cause bad things in someone's life, you are a nutjob.

punkfiction

nb - nothing of what you said was WRONG, but i had no idea why everyone was feeling so "sorry" in the FFFC post - when you talk as if he is still around, everything is fine, etc. just bc in ONE post you say he left - not everyone is going to pretend as if everything else you said is null and void (and maybe you dont want that - but somd said it for you)

ameliasmom

Janimal:

While some would prefer nbjenni only get puppies and ranbows posts after her awful news, that doesn't mean Blondie's response was so bad.  Honestly, nbjenni can take it.  She is holding her own in a crappy situation, I hardly think Blondie's comment was so awful for her.

What might have been better is support not a put down.  caring and then maybe nicely put that this may show her that maybe another baby with him should be reconsidered.  The way blondiem put it kicked her while she was down.  Not nice.

Janimal

And as far as this:

"For the post below you are the biggest _bitch ever. Karma's sucks. How could you say that to someone. Your so _fucked up. Get back on your meds."

You think karma should bite her for a comment on this message board.  Hmmmm.....then what kind of karma do you invite by calling her names, cursing at her, and making dramatic callouts about medication?  Do you see the irony here?

Good think I don't believe in karma, or I would have to say you're in bigger trouble than Blondie!

punkfiction

LOL she didn't "kick her while she was down" - she tried to open her eyes and remind her that she had said that - and that it was a crazy idea.

Heather R

*blondiem*:

~SoMdGirl~:

For the post below you are the biggest _bitch ever. Karma's sucks. How could you say that to someone. Your so _fucked up. Get back on your meds.

 

SoMD. Newsflash. You don't know a single thing about me or my life. You are P-sycho. Now please, leave me alone.

And how about you go take a grammar lesson. You need some edumacation.

No boxer in this fight, but if you're going to call someone out for her grammar, make sure yours is right: "how about you go take a grammar lesson?"<------------

 

Judah'sMommy

I have nothing to add to this thread except that Janimal's level-headedness is sorely missed around here! 

Name-calling isn't helping anyone, especially not NBJ.

ameliasmom

punkfiction:

LOL she didn't "kick her while she was down" - she tried to open her eyes and remind her that she had said that - and that it was a crazy idea.

It was kicking in my opinion the way she put it.  I suggested a more caring way of putting it if she really meant the best for nbjenni.

punkfiction

well, amelia - its a message board. not a counseling center. no one has to walk on eggshells

Janimal

I think the wrath levelled at Blondie is created drama.  Really, nbjenni is dealing with an assclown of a husband but y'all are up in arms over Blondie's one sentence response.  Perspective much?

I you Judah's.

*blondiem*

Janimal:

I think the wrath levelled at Blondie is created drama.  Really, nbjenni is dealing with an assclown of a husband but y'all are up in arms over Blondie's one sentence response.  Perspective much?

I you Judah's.

It's been the norm as of late. I have a whole slew of haters. And I am not really sure how that came about other than hearsay and other misconceptions.

Heather, good find re: my grammar. 

Janimal

Message board haters are kewl.  Not.