Looking for some support...

WeeOnesMama

I went to get my first ultrasound today, at what I thought was 7w4d, because I was having some spotting.  Never did I expect there to be two babies.  I'm freaking out!  I'm a first time mom and don't know what I'm going to do.  Any comforting thoughts would be very much appreciated.

kyluvsaj

First, CONGRATS!  HOW EXCITING!

You will find lots of support here.  We won't bombard you at first but you do have your work cut out for you.

Some twin pregnancies are a breeze some are difficult, most are right in the middle.

After the twins are born you will find it is the hardest but most rewarding thing you ever have done.  If you asked a singleton mom the same question though she would tell you the same thing!

I have heard it is good when you have twins first because then you don't know how much harder it is having two instead of one!

Take a breath, say a prayer and smile up to God.  You have been blessed.  We are here for you!

ancjph

The shock is totally normal. I still have days like that. I would suggest Dr. Lukes Book Twins, Triplets and More. This is a great good to belong to and ask as many question as you want we are happy to answer them. Congrats!! and Welcome.

jennyvag

Congratulations!!  I'm a first time mom as well, and I was very nervous when I first heard there were 2 babies, but I quickly realized how much of a blessing it is to have twins :-) 

 The women on this board are amazing and will offer great advice.  I've learned SO much from them...I don't know what people did before the internet, lol! 

 Best of luck to you and congrats again!

debisheldon

Congrats! Welcome to out club. Being shocked is totally normal. I still look at my big belly and say "2, really 2". But is/ will be such a blessing. The women on here are the best you will ever find. The support is amazing!

So my advice, take a breathe and keep breathing. Ask us anything. One of us has been there and done that. 

goldenmama

congrats!!!! it is totally ok and normal to FREAK OUT! Heck you just found out you are having two babies!!!! Needless to say it is shocking but the best thing in the entire world

Ask all the questions in the world and someone will alway be able to give you a supportive answer! Welcome to the board!

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congrats!!!

don't worry - you can do it!  

suggested reading: Dr. Luke's book re: being pg with twins - it will help you to have a healthy twin pg... make sure your OB is good with twin pg's - and see a perinatologist, too.  https://www.drbarbaraluke.com/index.cfm

There is tons of help here- and many good books about raising twins (I really ilked "Ready or NOt Here We Come" and "Twin Set".

you'll do great!

lstaylor73

Congratulations!  Your post is very much like my very first post on this board oh so long ago.  First thing is to take a deep breath.  The second thing is that you should know that every day from here on out you and your DH will look at each other and say "OMG! Twins!"  LOL!

You will find this board to be awesome and full of absolutely wonderful ladies.  Visit here often and ask lots of questions.  Take it one day at a time.

I'm 12 months in to actually having these miracles and every day my DH and I are still in shock and amazement.

Zeidy01

Congrats!!!! Listen to your body. DO NOT feel bad for calling the on call doc, remember you pay his bills. Drink lots of water, rest and eat well. I'm also a 1st time mom and had no clue what I was doing, you'll be fine.

jasonlovessara

Congratulations!!!!  I was a first time mom as well and was quite shocked when I saw that I was going to have two.... you will do great!  This board has been a life saver so please visit frequently with any questions.... best wishes!

pea-kay

congrats and welcome! everyone here has been there, so you're in good company.

april062604

woohoo! ?congrats and what a surprise. welcome to the board.

JChandlerJBates

Welcome to the Board and Congrats on the twins. 

I love having twins.  It is very hard work don't get me wrong, but it's the greatest feeling ever.  Mine are also my 1st and 2nd children.  It is scary, but please use us for references to your questions.  One of is bound to have an answer for you.

This is a great bunch of Ladies so Welcome again.

macchiatto

Congratulations!!!
And know that it's totally normal to freak out at that news. I did! (We found out at 12 weeks.) Like a pp said, there's a wide range in terms of twin pregnancies and experiences. My pregnancy was overall fairly easy--I did have bedrest the last four weeks, but overall I had an easier pregnancy and even delivery than my next-door neighbor who was due about the same time with a singleton. I made it to 38 weeks and delivered two heathy, full-term babies. The first month or two were kinda crazy, but you'll get through it and it does get easier. (I can say that already at just three months!) And having two babies at once really is cool and amazing in many ways.

Give yourself time to get used to the idea; it took me months to get over the shock! But you've come to a great place for strength, support, tips and advice!

jmubride2

My little ones were a complete surprise too!  It takes a little while to get used to the idea and like many have said I still have moments where I think I my gosh! 

This board is great!  The women are wonderful.  Make sure you have a great dr.  because you will spend lots of time with them!

crc143

Congrats! I was in your shoes about a month ago Since then, I've gotten more used to the idea and it's now getting exciting so don't worry, the shock will slowly wear off.

krisc

Congratulations and welcome!  We've all been there so we know how you feel!  I'm still in shock and my babies are almost 16 months old!  Ask all your questions, everyone here is great and very supportive.  Take some time to let it all sink it, it's a great ride!