Do you "make yourself up" on a daily basis. Full makeup, blow-dried/straightened hair, actual outfits?
My friend told me she always does her hair, puts on full makeup and gets fully dressed every day -- even if she doesn't go anywhere. I told her I was impressed and she said that if she didn't go through the effort, she figured one day she'd be like "well, why even bother showering?"
I have to admit that I often just throw my wet hair in a ponytail, go sans makeup and wear sweats when I'm home. I ALWAYS shower, though.
Am I alone?
Re: If you SAH...
I always get dressed and put my face on. I usually make a point to leave the house every day, but I don't feel human w/o doing that.
I also try to look nice so that when DH comes home from work, I'm not looking how he last saw me, in my jammies.
Most days, yes.
Today I'm dressed, but haven't showered. It's been rainy out all morning, but I did have to run to the bank, which is the only reason I'm wearing clothes and not pajamas still.
Generally though, I do shower and dress and so forth. Even if I don't go anywhere. It makes me feel better when I do.
Me with my littlest.
Well, on days I'm home (work PT), I'm somewhere in the middle. I always shower when DD is taking a nap and throw on jeans and a t-shirt. I dry my hair more out of necessity because its curly and would be a frizzy mess otherwise. I wear a little make-up. I know its blasphemy but I hate sweats and flip-flops.
ETA: One reason I make a little effort is because I felt terrible when I was overweight after having my girls. Taking care of myself lifted my spirits.
I do, but it is a very rare day that we don't go out. So, every day by 8:30 I am showered, dressed, hair dried and straightened, and make-up on (only tinted moisturizer, mascara, and a touch of eyeliner, though - I'm not rocking full on foundation and blue eye shadow or something).
In the summer I do sometimes just put my wet hair up in a bun, but I obviously can't do that in the cold weather.
When I did SAH I would never put on make-up unless I was going out. I would mostly wear either sweats or workout type clothing, as we would go for walks.
I shower DAILY NO MATTER WHAT. I could never NOT shower.
DD #2 - 03.13
I always shower, get dressed and put on makeup. Whether we are going somewhere or not.
Annelise 3.22.2007 Norah 10.24.2009 Amelia 8.7.2011
I never wore make-up anyway. If I went out (I mean out....like to the bar or something), I'd slap some mascara and lip gloss on, but that's it.
I don't even own a blow drier (and my hair is long, I just let it dry).
I do take a hot shower every night. It's my escape. It's less about the cleaning myself and more about being alone somewhere where people aren't yapping or screaming or crying or pawing at me. No ringing phones. No having to yell, "Stop shoving your sister!" No diapers to change in the shower.
Sometimes, it's a bath and I don't bother washing my hair with shampoo, I just wet it when I dunk my head under and enjoy the silence.
I'm sort of lucky that the hair on my legs doesn't grow so much.....I do limited maintenance in that regard! The armpits....I do them every other night because you just never know (especially now....a trip to L&D...a gown...exposed pits....no way).
I don't care if it's midnight by the time I get to it....I get in my daily shower or bath!
Ryan 5/2010, Kyle 1/2007, Eric 3/2005