OK so I said to someone that I found a place I thought they would love to have lunch and that I'd like to take them there my treat. We agreed to check our schedules and get back with a day that worked. A couple days go by and I see a facebook update that says, "Went to such and such place and the food wasn't that great." This of course was the same exact lunch spot I had suggested!
Am I being sensitive here? First because we agreed to set a date (never heard back) and then they went anyway. And then to trash the place on a facebook update? Not the first time something similar has happened but I'm wondering if this person is being passively aggro or if I'm being hormonal?
Re: Silly vent, should my feelings be hurt?
Hmm... :-/ I'd probably be a little miffed, too. I would guess that either:
A) They're totally dense.
or
They were trying to make some kind of point.
I'd lean toward A) being more likely, but it's hard to know w/o knowing the person.
I'd be annoyed. ?Actually it reminds me of times when I'd suggest the restaurant or the movie (someplace I really wanted to go or something I wanted to see) to DH and he said afterwards that he didn't like it. ?He has no idea why that bugs me.
The fact that he/she also just went without you would also bug me. ?That said, I'm guessing dense/clueless rather than p/a.
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Lighthouse State Beach, Santa Cruz.