Anyone else have issues with their Mom.

LIbride1006

Just a little backround. I left my mom's when I was 11 to live with my Dad. After I left she filed 13 false CPS reports against my Dad. Fast forward almost 20 years my oldest son is now 11 and now she is starting with me again. I have asked her nicely to please leave my family alone, but nothing works. She has convinced herself that I am beating my son. I have asked him why she thinks this and he said she wants him to come and live with her. Great she wants my kid now after she married someone who has physically asaulted my brother and her. She is crazy. My son is very well treated and never has even hand a bruise from the hands of someone in my home. I would kill for my child and it makes me sick that the system allows her to use them as a part of her sick plan. I have spoken with them and there is nothing they will do. My only resource is to now take time off and go to court and file restraining orders. I just want a normal family sooo bad. It is so embarassing to have to tellmy IL's what is going on.

kittycarr

Have that psycho committed.  I have issues with my mother too but I won't bore you with it all.  I only haven't committed her because I do'nt believe she's a threat to society and she's smart enough to leave me alone.  Is there anything you can do to keep her from you like change your phone number, move, something??

kylara111

I'm so sorry.  Before I even finished reading your post I was thinking "restraining order".  Its terrible that you have to go to such lengths to keep her away, but I think its best for your family.  Don't be embarrassed!  This is not your fault!

triplea1819

I would definitly get a restraining order then.  I know it is time off of work, but it would mean a happied and healthier life for your son. 

 

also, how does your son know she wants him to live with her?  i would assume they have contact?  I would stop all that ASAP.

 

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I would wait for the latest allegation to be investigated and found to be unfounded.  Then I would try for a restraining order.  I would also not allow her any contact with myself or my child.  I would make my relatives and friends aware of the situation and tell them that if they speak to her about anything regarding you and/or your child that you will limit their contact with you as well.  THat way, when she makes her next report you can say "I haven't seen or had contact with my mother for X months so I have no idea where she would be in a position to know anything about my life or my child's life to make an allegation".

DaiLyght

ditto pps

Cut off all contact now. Your relationship with her is not healthy for you or your son and therefore provides no benefit to keep in contact with her. If she continues, file the restraining order. There is nothing be embarrassed about. I'd be willing to bet more people are understanding and caring about the situation than you might expect. ((hugs)) Good luck.

hopefulmom

If she has filed false accusations against you then she can be taken to court and will either have to pay fines, be jailed or pay you.  The restraining order is also good because if she violates that she can be locked up.  How weird.  She needs some serious professional help.