can anybody else not stand the FIL.

Magic Ball

H was just on the phone with him and H was talking about how he made breakfast today... which is a very rare thing. I over heard FIL on the phone talking *** about me about how I didn't help make Thanksgiving dinner with them. And H had the nerve to say yeah everybody else cooked. WTH?

We were on the road when they made the food... on the way to MY family's house and when we got back to the MIL and FIL's house they were already done making dinner. I want to know how the hell I would have or when I was supposed to make that damn dinner. I guess now my ghost is supposed to cook for them. WTH? I am beyond pissed.

Tim'sWifey

My issues lie mainly with SIL.

Magic Ball

Tim'sWifey:

My issues lie mainly with SIL.

I can't stand SIL too. I really am starting to not like any of them anymore. I hate this but good grief they are all JERKS!

ilovetolaugh

i HATE when they do that!! my step-MIL gets in on stuff like that too...drives me CRAAAAAAAAZZZZZY!! ugh. makes me want to say "we should have just stayed at my family celebration"

jCamsquared

I am not really on great terms with any of the ILs, but FIL is the worst. Beyond repair kind of bad. I feel your pain.

mjs_pmk

I like my FIL, but he has a tendancy to get on my nerves. I am kind of happy that we don't live closer to my in-laws because I think the man would drive me nuts.

Magic Ball

jCamsquared:

I am not really on great terms with any of the ILs, but FIL is the worst. Beyond repair kind of bad. I feel your pain.

Once I was at the IL's house... and FIL, H, and BIL were loading the car because we were getting ready to go leave. I was on the phone with my mother letting her know we were on the way to her house. FIL got pissed I wasn't loading the car even though three MEN were doing this. Which I always useally do load and unload.

He then came in the house and screamed at me to get off the phone and even called me a B*itch. My mom heard it all and if his number hadn't of not been in the phone book my mom would have gave him a new one. She was beyond pissed he talked to me that way. He is damn lucky I accepted the apology and even went over on Thanksgiving. Real winners in that damn family. I seriously hate him!

jCamsquared

Magic Ball:

jCamsquared:

I am not really on great terms with any of the ILs, but FIL is the worst. Beyond repair kind of bad. I feel your pain.

Once I was at the IL's house... and FIL, H, and BIL were loading the car because we were getting ready to go leave. I was on the phone with my mother letting her know we were on the way to her house. FIL got pissed I wasn't loading the car even though three MEN were doing this. Which I always useally do load and unload.

He then came in the house and screamed at me to get off the phone and even called me a B*itch. My mom heard it all and if his number hadn't of not been in the phone book my mom would have gave him a new one. She was beyond pissed he talked to me that way. He is damn lucky I accepted the apology and even went over on Thanksgiving. Real winners in that damn family. I seriously hate him!

Wow you do have it worse than me! Mine has never called me names (to my face haha). He is just a passive aggresive ***. Do they let us say ***? They didn't used to..

*Edit, apparently no they still don't let us say d*ck haha

JAllen32

Magic Ball:

jCamsquared:

I am not really on great terms with any of the ILs, but FIL is the worst. Beyond repair kind of bad. I feel your pain.

Once I was at the IL's house... and FIL, H, and BIL were loading the car because we were getting ready to go leave. I was on the phone with my mother letting her know we were on the way to her house. FIL got pissed I wasn't loading the car even though three MEN were doing this. Which I always useally do load and unload.

He then came in the house and screamed at me to get off the phone and even called me a B*itch. My mom heard it all and if his number hadn't of not been in the phone book my mom would have gave him a new one. She was beyond pissed he talked to me that way. He is damn lucky I accepted the apology and even went over on Thanksgiving. Real winners in that damn family. I seriously hate him!

WOW!!!  I can't imagine!  Did DH say anything to him?  Mine would have been livid along with me! lol  That totally sucks to have to deal with something like that.

AllThatGlitters101

My FIL is an inconsiderate, selfish @sshole. I sometimes wonder how his son turned out to be such a sweet gentleman.

Magic Ball

DH didn't say anything because he was scared to because the way his dad flipped off the handle. I was pissed he didn't take up for me, and am still angry about it. I cried and stayed in the room for the twenty minutes before I left ALONE.

I seriously hate going over there now. It is not a happy place. Now when I go nothing feels right anymore. I can't even stand being in the same room with him. Also it feels as if I am in a room and not one person is talking to me. I seriously sit there like a idiot... Ugh now I am crying.

I just don't understand why they aren't normal. They are so far from my family. My family has always been so sweet to H. I hate it... but I am very different from them though. They just act so different than I do. They say things that no way in hell I would ever say... ever. I used to love going over there and now I seriously can't wait to leave... I even count down the minutes. It's a shame things have been so jacked up with him. He is just a HUGE jerk.

JAllen32

Thats really sad.  I would have been pissed too that he did stand up for you.  You shouldn't have to take that from anyone especially family!  Thats has to be uncomfortable.