sorry if i offended anyone....

goldenmama

it has been a rough week of watching parenting trainwrecks in my personal life and i hope I did not offended anyone with the remarks i made below in the confessions post.

if i did i am sorry....

(((hugs)))  love you ladies to death!

BabyDavison

We love you to death too

CMW

Heehee, I love seeing how many people view posts.  Look at all of the people (including myselp) that thought this would be a drama post and had to check it out!

nbjenni

(Z Snap) Oh no you di-n't!

Hehehe, it's all good, girl.

MandieSueM

I was certainly not offended (though I know not what you speak of regarding this thread).  Smoking is gross and I've learned to become accostumed to the looks, much like BFing in public.  No biggie.  That's why I say we shouldn't judge people; you never know why I'm standing on my porch smoking, you just think it's gross; but turns out I am smoking a butt so I don't shake my kids.  If you look at it that way, it's almost lovely!  ;P

And I read the other post apologizing for the remark about people whose kids are up all night and I agree.  Though again, we shouldn't judge.  My mom used to put us to bed really late (like 11 o'clock), because my Dad worked from 5 am to like 9 pm so we'd eat dinner when he got home and he'd want to spend time with us so we just went to be really late and slept in.  Which, as I look back on it now, is a legitimate reason to keep your kids up.  They're just on a different schedule.  That doesn't stop me though, from rolling my eyes every time I'm in Wal Mart late night and there's a mother pushing around a cart with 3 little kids in it, all wide awake at 10 pm.

It all just goes back to you never know why other people do what they do so I have learned to try and curb my judgemental behavior.  I have always been very judgemental so it's something I am working very hard on resolving. 

kyluvsaj

I am not sure what you are talking about!  That is the point of confession Friday!  No one is allowed to get their feelers hurt!

MandieSueM

RIGHT ON!!!!!!!  No hurt feelings, just sharing and LOVE!!!!!

lutzcowgirlie

kyluvsaj:

No one is allowed to get their feelers hurt!

 

My feelers are feeling quite nice, actually

 

Nope. I don't mind it. My mom disagrees with my decisions and parenting stuff, too. She just says what she wants and I just ignore her and we both know that that is how it works. To each his own.

 

Unless you are terrible to your kids. Then you suck.

pea-kay

flame free confessions have to be just that!