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For those of you who got/are getting your DC baptized

I'm trying to pick out an appropriate baptism cake.  There will be non-denominational relatives at Ella's baptism and I don't want to offend anyone, but at the same time, I want it to have meaning and not look tacky.  I also want to be able to make it, while I'm a good decorator, I'm not a professional.  What did your cake look like?
Ella- 8/22/08, Jules and Tuck- 12/15/10
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Re: For those of you who got/are getting your DC baptized

  • Personally, it is your child's baptism...do whatever kind of cake you want. ?I would not find something like that offensive at all...the thought would never cross my mind
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  • Well, I haven't even thought about what the cake will look like. But we have picked out the godparents and discussed a few other details.

    IMO, you are doing the baptism because of your beliefs. I wouldn't worry about people with different beliefs. They know that going to a baptism of someone of another/non denomintional that there will be differences. In this situation I would really go with what makes you happy.

    I'm sure that if you have a cross cake they will just eat it and not be like "OMG a cross cake! Don't they know we don't believe in religious icons!?! HOW COULD THEY!"

     

  • Yea, I guess I should've though about their perspective, it's really silly that I would let that get in the way.  I think I've found one browsing the web anyways.

    https://www.aboutthecake.com/9a6ef4f0.jpg

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  • I agree...it is your childs baptism and I wouldn't worry about what you write on the cake offending anyone

    We got a $30 sheet cake from Costco.  It had a cross and flowers on it and said "May God Bless..." then our babies name

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  • just adding my two cents. If I were a guest I would not be offended at all and understand the arrangements, decor, reflect the family's beliefs/decision.

    I think its very nice of you to take others into consideration though!

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  • do whatever you want! this is Ethans...

    E's cake

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  • This is not the time to be PC - if you were going to a Bris would you be offended by the Jewish star?  I've made cakes for Baptisms and what I usually do is make a white cake and then do a colored fondant cross (you could also do a dove) in the middle (very easy).  I usually pipe - God Bless baby's name. Around the edge. 

     

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  • imageChristakim:

    Yea, I guess I should've though about their perspective, it's really silly that I would let that get in the way.  I think I've found one browsing the web anyways.

    https://www.aboutthecake.com/9a6ef4f0.jpg

    Christa, so pretty!

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  • i can't imagine why someone would be offended by YOUR cake at YOUR child's baptism.  If they disagreed with your religion so much - they should not be attending.

    It'll be a cold day in hell when I'll worry about something at my child's baptism offending someone.

    As for the cake- my son's was simple- with a cross- and said "God Bless Griffin"

     

  • Pamela, Ryan's was beautiful!!!!!
    Ella- 8/22/08, Jules and Tuck- 12/15/10
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  • I agree with the pp - if someone is invited to a Baptism, they should understand/expect religion to be a big part of the day, including the cake!  The cake you found looks perfect :-)  Ours was pretty basic, but I added a pic anyway:

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