Well....I think I'm starting to spot :(

AuburnBride06

I'm not sure. CM is whiteish/lotiony but seems to have a brown/yellow tint to it. I also feel crampy. I am about 11dpo today/13 dp trigger.  Oh man. I'm starting the water works....OMG.  Why wouldnt it have worked this time????????   all the stress? having the cold?  What could be different? Everything went the same....I need to get out of here. I have an internet cheapie strip at home. But there is no way my pee would be concentrated. i caused this. I have been too stressed. Too emotional. Too many things going on. Oh god please let me be wrong.

sescms2004

Please don't give up yet! It is still to early.  But, even if it doesn't work this month, you CAN'T blame yourself.  I mean, think of all the perfectly, normal, fertile people who take months to get pregnant.  Sometimes eggs just don't fertilize or make it where they should.  But, it's nothing that YOU did.  My RE always tells me, a healthy embryo will take care of itself, and there's almost nothing you can do to change that (in regards to stress, infections, colds, etc.)  One cycle I had a root canal done & found out my tooth was infected.  I ended up having a c/p that cycle and was convinced my tooth infection caused it.  But it didn't.   Please don't be hard on yourself......IF is hard enough. 

Hugs & good thoughts to you.....

Ginger71

It's ok-just try to stay calm and know that this happens to many women. I spotted w/ my 1st IVF, freaked out about it and got pg!

Can you try some meditation? I downloaded some awesome stuff from itunes including just ocean sounds that help me calm down.

Best of luck-hope it's a bfp.

G

chrissyt27

I hope your wrong. I am crossing my fingers for you. And you can't think it's your fault. My RE told me you can have the perfect cycle and it just may not work. So please don't blame your self. If you can I would wait till morning to test, since 12DPO will be way better and you can do it in the morning.

LuvBugKel

Don't freak until the big fat red lady sings and it doesn't sound like she is singing yet.  I know it's easier said than done but don't loose hope!!!! 

momma mimi

I'm sorry your spotting. I hope it stops at that and you get your BFP and sticky baby. Hugs.