Pregnant after a Loss

**Peach**

Jules my dear I just wanted to say what you are feeling today is perfectly normal.  I know you feel "guilty" for feeling "disappointed" you were not right about baby P being a girl, and I just wanted to assure you it is ok, and it is normal.  It does not mean you love Owen any less that you loved girl Peach, and I just know as soon as the shock is over you will see that too. 

I do feel a little bad that I contributed to all the "girlness" and if I upset you in any way I am truly so very sorry.  You are a wonderful person, and a great friend, and I would never want to hurt you.

xoxo

Re: **Peach**

  • Oh Lisa - how do you know exactly what my mind is going through right now?  I do feel terribly guilty and so awful that I was *hoping* and *planning* on a girl.....and after finding out it was a boy (I already feel so bad for Owen) b/c I started crying right away and I'm missing my sweet Eleanor.

    Dh is SO understanding - he KNEW this would happen and has been preparing for it, I guess, ha!  He called all our family this AM and it made me happy that he could do all the announcing :)

    And for the record....you've done NOTHING to upset me (silly Lisa!).....in fact, having you as my pg buddy has helped to make this pregnancy journey so much more rewarding :)  *hugs*

    Love you and your little sweet pea!

    Jules

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