This is why I turn the ringer off

manic mama

My sister called this morning a little before DS woke up. He gave us three hours at a time last night, but of course we were OUT when she called.

She said her twins had been sick and she had been texting me the developments all weekend. "OK" I said. "you were probably wondering what was going on with me!" she said. Not really, I thought, but I didn't want to hurt her feelings.

Then she mentioned the birth announcement that was sent from the birthing center we went to. It was sent to my mother to congratulate her on her grandson. They send them to all of the grandparents and while I'm estranged from my mom, DH suggested I send it.

So I say to my sister, "DH said we should send it." She goes on about how our mom was surprised and my sis didn't really know anything because they "hadn't talked about it," meaning my boy. 

I get off the phone and realize, A) she was supposed to come over yesterday so that's why she thought I should know what was going on at her house why did I say DH made me send the announcement? C) What does she mean that she hadn't talked to our mother about DS? She was friggin text messaging her through my labor!

All of those things I missed. WTF! I have to call her back.